{"id":4547,"date":"2016-10-07T11:18:11","date_gmt":"2016-10-07T08:18:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yeniterter.az\/?p=4547"},"modified":"2016-10-07T11:18:53","modified_gmt":"2016-10-07T08:18:53","slug":"islamda-ovlad-t%c9%99rbiy%c9%99si","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/?p=4547","title":{"rendered":"\u0130SLAMDA \u00d6VLAD T\u018fRB\u0130Y\u018fS\u0130"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"12ti\"Mehriban v\u0259 Ba\u011f\u0131\u015flayan Allah\u0131n ad\u0131 il\u0259!<\/em><\/strong>
\nB\u0259\u015f\u0259riyy\u0259t\u0259 g\u00f6nd\u0259rilmi\u015f dinl\u0259rin \u0259n sonuncusu olan islam dini dem\u0259k olar ki, h\u0259yat\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn sah\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 \u00f6z t\u00f6fh\u0259sini vermi\u015fdir. \u0130st\u0259r yem\u0259k qaydalar\u0131 olsun, yaxud qohumluq-qon\u015fuluq v\u0259 ya h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir ictimai \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259r. Bunlar\u0131n i\u00e7\u0259risind\u0259 ail\u0259y\u0259 aid olan qanunlar daha \u00e7ox diqq\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kir. Dinimizd\u0259 ki\u015fi-qad\u0131n, valideyn-\u00f6vlad, b\u00f6y\u00fck-ki\u00e7ik m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri \u0259n \u00e7ox \u00f6n\u0259m veril\u0259n m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259ndir. M\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s Kitab\u0131m\u0131z Quranda \u00f6vladlara t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 v\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259ri\u015f verilir ki, valideynl\u0259riniz\u0259 \u201cuf\u201d bel\u0259 dem\u0259yin, onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn Allahdan ba\u011f\u0131\u015flanma dil\u0259yin v\u0259 onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn Allaha \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr edin. B\u0259s \u00f6vlada qar\u015f\u0131 valideynin haqq\u0131 n\u0259dir? Ax\u0131, dinimiz biz\u0259 \u0259mr edir ki, bir-birimizin haqq\u0131na riay\u0259t ed\u0259k! Sevimli Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimiz (s) buyurur:\u201d\u00d6vlad\u0131n valideyn boynunda (\u0259sas\u0259n atan\u0131n) haqq\u0131 budur ki, ona g\u00f6z\u0259l ad qoya (ki, ad\u0131 ona utanc g\u0259tirm\u0259y\u0259), t\u0259rbiy\u0259 ver\u0259 v\u0259 ona elm \u00f6yr\u0259d\u0259.\u201d
\nM\u0259nb\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 deyilir ki, t\u0259rbiy\u0259 verm\u0259k i\u015fi h\u0259l\u0259 k\u00f6rp\u0259 d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259lm\u0259mi\u015f ba\u015flamal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu nec\u0259 ola bil\u0259r? Lap \u0259vv\u0259ld\u0259n ata g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k \u00f6vlad\u0131n mayas\u0131n\u0131 halal ruzi il\u0259 b\u0259rq\u0259rar etm\u0259lidir v\u0259 sonra ki, art\u0131q k\u00f6rp\u0259 anas\u0131n\u0131n \u201cqona\u011f\u0131d\u0131r\u201d, ata v\u0259 ana \u0259d\u0259bd\u0259n, etikadan k\u0259nar s\u00f6zl\u0259rd\u0259n uzaq olmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki bu g\u00fcn\u00fcn texnoloji inki\u015faf\u0131 Quran\u0131n bir sirrini d\u0259 t\u0259sdiql\u0259di ki, h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n k\u00f6rp\u0259 ana b\u0259tnind\u0259 olark\u0259n ilk i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n orqan onun e\u015fitm\u0259 orqanlar\u0131d\u0131r.
\n\u0130mam C\u0259f\u0259r Sadiq (\u0259) buyurur: \u201cQidada insan xasiyy\u0259tin\u0259 t\u0259sir ed\u0259n \u00e7oxlu amill\u0259r var\u201d. Y\u0259ni, \u00f6vlada halal\u0131ndan ruzi yedirm\u0259k valideynl\u0259rin boynunda olan m\u0259n\u0259vi bir borcdur, Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimiz (s) yen\u0259 buyurur: U\u015faq d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259ldikd\u0259n sonra ilk g\u00fcnl\u0259rd\u0259 sa\u011f qula\u011f\u0131na azan (minar\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n ucalan namaz \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131\u015f\u0131), sol qula\u011f\u0131na is\u0259 iqam\u0259 deyin: Bel\u0259 ki, onun ilk e\u015fitdiyi k\u0259lm\u0259 Allah k\u0259lm\u0259si olsun. V\u0259 \u201c \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131z dil a\u00e7ark\u0259n onlara \u201cla ilah\u0259 ill\u0259llah\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc s\u00f6yl\u0259din\u201d. Ancaq \u00e7ox t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, bu g\u00fcn biz burda yaz\u0131lanlar\u0131n tam \u0259ksin\u0259 gedirik. B\u0259zi valideynl\u0259r (\u0259n \u00e7oxu da atalar) lap \u0259vv\u0259ld\u0259n, halal\u0131 harama qat\u0131r, o zaman ki, u\u015faq yenic\u0259 dil a\u00e7ma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r, k\u00f6rp\u0259y\u0259 konfet, \u015firniyyat, sonrak\u0131 r\u00fcbl\u00fckl\u0259rd\u0259 pul ver\u0259r\u0259k, onu bi\u0259d\u0259b s\u00f6zl\u0259r dem\u0259y\u0259 vadar edirl\u0259r. Bel\u0259likl\u0259 d\u0259 onlar g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259li, s\u0259viyy\u0259li bir insan t\u0259qdim etm\u0259k \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259, tam t\u0259rs formada bir arzuolunmaz g\u0259nc yeti\u015fdirirl\u0259r. G\u0259r\u0259k b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r yax\u015f\u0131 m\u0259nada ki\u00e7ikl\u0259r\u0259 n\u00fcmun\u0259 olalar. Onsuz da u\u015faqlar evin g\u00fczg\u00fcs\u00fcd\u00fcr. \u0130mam C\u0259f\u0259r Sadiq (\u0259) buyurur:\u201cM\u00fcs\u0259lmanam dem\u0259, onu \u0259m\u0259linl\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259r\u201d. H\u0259disl\u0259rd\u0259 deyilir:\u201d Bir g\u00fcn bir ki\u015fi \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc narahat hiss ed\u0259n \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 Hz. Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rin (s) yan\u0131na g\u0259tir\u0259r\u0259k deyir: \u201cYa R\u0259sulallah, bu u\u015faq narahatd\u0131r (Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimiz (s) Allah\u0131n k\u0259ram\u0259tiyl\u0259 h\u0259m d\u0259 t\u00fcrk\u0259\u00e7ar\u0259liyi bilirmi\u015f). H\u0259zr\u0259t (s) u\u015fa\u011fa bax\u0131r v\u0259 deyir ki, apar, sabah g\u0259tir\u0259rs\u0259n. Ki\u015fi u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 sabah g\u0259tirir, Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259r (s) buyurur ki, qoyma xurman\u0131 \u00e7ox yey\u0259, \u015firin \u015feyl\u0259r bu u\u015fa\u011fa ziyand\u0131r. Ki\u015fi t\u0259\u0259cc\u00fcbl\u0259 deyir: \u201cYa R\u0259sulallah, bunu niy\u0259 d\u00fcn\u0259n dem\u0259diniz? Bird\u0259 bu q\u0259d\u0259r yol g\u0259lm\u0259zdik.\u201d Cavab verir ki, d\u00fcn\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcm d\u0259 \u00e7ox yemi\u015fdim. Dedim, s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn b\u0259ra\u0259ti olmaz!
\nB\u0259li, t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259k budur. Vacib olan m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131n aras\u0131nda ayr\u0131-se\u00e7kilik qoyulmamas\u0131d\u0131r. B\u0259z\u0259n rast g\u0259linir ki, kims\u0259 o\u011ful \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 q\u0131z \u00f6vlad\u0131ndan \u00fcst\u00fcn tutur. Q\u0259tiyy\u0259n bel\u0259 etm\u0259k olmaz! \u201cAllahdan qorxun, \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131za qar\u015f\u0131 \u0259dal\u0259tli olun, birini o birind\u0259n \u00fcst\u00fcn tutmay\u0131n!\u201d(Hz. M\u00fch\u0259mm\u0259d (s)
\nDahi \u0259dib, Az\u0259rbaycan\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnyaya tan\u0131dan \u00dc. Hac\u0131b\u0259yov yaz\u0131r: \u201c\u00d6vladlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 b\u00fctl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259yin ki, bu sevgi sizi pis v\u0259ziyy\u0259t\u0259 salmas\u0131n\u201d. H\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259 \u00f6vladlar valideyn sevgisind\u0259n \u00e7ox istifad\u0259 edirl\u0259r. Dinimiz buyurur ki, ail\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259\u015fm\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131 da dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131r\u0131n, onlar\u0131 k\u00f6rp\u0259 ya\u015flar\u0131ndan bir \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi yeti\u015fdirin. Bu i\u015fin h\u0259m onlara v\u0259 h\u0259m d\u0259 valideynl\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck xeyri var. Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259r (s) buyurur: \u00d6vladlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sevib, onlara m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259t b\u0259sl\u0259yin. H\u0259r vaxt onlara v\u0259d\u0259 vers\u0259niz, v\u0259d\u0259niz\u0259 \u0259m\u0259l edin. \u00c7\u00fcnki, \u00f6vlad atas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 ruzi ver\u0259n kimi d\u0259rk edir.\u201d \u00d6vlad \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 vasit\u0259si \u0259n birinci valideynl\u0259ridir ki, onlardan d\u00fczg\u00fcnl\u00fcy\u00fc v\u0259 yaxud da xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259n i\u015fl\u0259ri \u00f6z saf yadda\u015flar\u0131na k\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcr\u00fcr. G\u0259r\u0259kdir ki, ata-ana \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yi namin\u0259 \u00f6z m\u0259nfi xisl\u0259tl\u0259rini m\u00fcsb\u0259tl\u0259 \u0259v\u0259zl\u0259sinl\u0259r. H\u0259tta aralar\u0131nda olan m\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcl\u00fc u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n yan\u0131nda \u00e7\u00f6zm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131nlar. Sonda Uca R\u0259bbimiz h\u0259r birimiz\u0259 sa\u011flam v\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259li \u00f6vladlar qism\u0259t etsin. Amin!<\/p>\n

Saleh \u018fdilov <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Mehriban v\u0259 Ba\u011f\u0131\u015flayan Allah\u0131n ad\u0131 il\u0259! B\u0259\u015f\u0259riyy\u0259t\u0259 g\u00f6nd\u0259rilmi\u015f dinl\u0259rin \u0259n sonuncusu olan islam dini dem\u0259k olar ki, h\u0259yat\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn sah\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 \u00f6z t\u00f6fh\u0259sini vermi\u015fdir. \u0130st\u0259r yem\u0259k qaydalar\u0131 olsun, yaxud qohumluq-qon\u015fuluq v\u0259 ya h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir ictimai \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259r. Bunlar\u0131n i\u00e7\u0259risind\u0259 ail\u0259y\u0259 aid olan qanunlar daha \u00e7ox diqq\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kir. Dinimizd\u0259 ki\u015fi-qad\u0131n, valideyn-\u00f6vlad, b\u00f6y\u00fck-ki\u00e7ik m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri \u0259n \u00e7ox \u00f6n\u0259m veril\u0259n […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[30],"tags":[32],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4547"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4547"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4547\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4547"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4547"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4547"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}