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T\u0259rt\u0259r Rayon \u0130cra Hakimiyy\u0259ti yan\u0131nda \u0130ctimai \u015euran\u0131n s\u0259dri kimi \u015fura \u00fczvl\u0259ri il\u0259 birlikd\u0259 b\u0259z\u0259n ail\u0259 m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259ri zaman\u0131 yaranan probleml\u0259rin h\u0259llind\u0259 i\u015ftirak edirik. Bu zaman bizi \u0259n \u00e7ox incid\u0259n v\u0259 narahat ed\u0259n qocalara v\u0259 u\u015faqlara olan m\u00fcnasib\u0259tdir. \u00c7\u00fcnki h\u0259m ya\u015fl\u0131lar, h\u0259m d\u0259 u\u015faqlar qay\u011f\u0131ya, k\u00f6m\u0259y\u0259 daha \u00e7ox ehtiyac duyurlar. Bu sah\u0259d\u0259 d\u00f6vl\u0259timiz kifayy\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r i\u015f g\u00f6rs\u0259 d\u0259, \u0259sas m\u0259suliyy\u0259t ail\u0259l\u0259rin \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.\n\u00c7\u00fcnki d\u00f6vl\u0259timizin qanunlar\u0131 il\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259r bizim \u0259n d\u0259y\u0259rli s\u0259rv\u0259timiz xalq\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n yaz\u0131lmam\u0131\u015f ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259ridir. Bu \u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259r indi qorunurmu?
\nBu yax\u0131nlarda rayon A\u011fsaqqallar \u015euras\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259dri Faiq M\u0259mm\u0259dovla bir ail\u0259d\u0259 olduq. Anan\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7 o\u011flu, \u00fc\u00e7 g\u0259lini vard\u0131. Boylu-buxunlu, yara\u015f\u0131ql\u0131 o\u011flanlar v\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l g\u0259linl\u0259r. Y\u0259qin ki, u\u00e7 o\u011ful d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 anaya g\u00f6zayd\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 verib, b\u0259xt\u0259v\u0259r qad\u0131n adland\u0131r\u0131blar.
\nAmma g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fcz m\u0259nz\u0259r\u0259 bizd\u0259 he\u00e7 d\u0259 bu t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcrat\u0131 yaratmad\u0131. Ana o\u011flanlar\u0131ndan biri il\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rd\u0131. Biz h\u0259y\u0259t\u0259 daxil olanda qoca qad\u0131n yudu\u011fu paltarlar\u0131 g\u00fcc-b\u0259la il\u0259 ip\u0259 s\u0259rirdi. He\u00e7 n\u0259yi soru\u015fmadan hiss olunurdu ki, o, o\u011flu, g\u0259lini v\u0259 n\u0259v\u0259l\u0259ri il\u0259 bir evd\u0259 ya\u015fasa da, onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yad bir insand\u0131r, onlar\u0131 yaln\u0131z maddi m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r maraqland\u0131r\u0131r. Bir azdan o biri o\u011fullar v\u0259 g\u0259linl\u0259r d\u0259 g\u0259ldi v\u0259 anan\u0131n bu \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fcbahis\u0259si i\u00e7ind\u0259 n\u0259l\u0259r \u00e7\u0259kdiyini g\u00f6rm\u0259k a\u011f\u0131r bir m\u0259nz\u0259r\u0259 idi.
\nM\u00fclk \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 m\u00fcbahis\u0259l\u0259r, h\u0259r \u015feyin \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 asan \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k arzusu b\u0259zi insanlarda o q\u0259d\u0259r g\u00fccl\u0259nib ki, m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s qohumluq ba\u011flar\u0131 q\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r korlan\u0131r v\u0259 bunun ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 da valideynl\u0259r \u00e7\u0259kirl\u0259r.
\nRayonumuzun ba\u015fqa bir k\u0259ndind\u0259 is\u0259 g\u0259nc qad\u0131n iki \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 ( onun biri 40 g\u00fcnl\u00fck olub) at\u0131b tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259 vasit\u0259sil\u0259 tan\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu insana qo\u015fulub qa\u00e7\u0131b. \u0130ndi paytaxtda y\u00fcng\u00fcl h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi ke\u00e7irir.
\nBu qad\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda k\u0259ndind\u0259n ba\u015fqa he\u00e7 yeri g\u00f6rm\u0259mi\u015fdi. Yetim\u00e7ilikl\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcb ail\u0259 qurmu\u015fdu, \u00f6vlad sahibi olmu\u015fdu. \u00c7\u0259tinlikl\u0259 dolan\u0131rd\u0131lar. Z\u0259if d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si il\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131na daha yax\u015f\u0131 h\u0259yat ya\u015fatmaq ist\u0259yirdi, odur ki, telefondak\u0131 d\u0259l\u0259duzlar\u0131n toruna d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc. \u0130ndi sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 insan alveri il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olan qad\u0131nlar\u0131n ikrah do\u011furun sif\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 baxanda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, b\u0259lk\u0259 o b\u0259db\u0259xt yetim d\u0259 on-lar\u0131n \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rinin qurban\u0131 olub? Bunu bilmir\u0259m. M\u0259lum olan is\u0259 budur ki, o, bird\u0259f\u0259lik h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n da, \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n da q\u0259lbind\u0259n silinib.
\nM\u0259n o qad\u0131na haqq qazand\u0131rm\u0131ram. Ona ana dem\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259 dilim g\u0259lmir. Amma bilin\u0259n odur ki, insan alveri il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olan v\u0259 haz\u0131rda istintaqa c\u0259lb edil\u0259n cinay\u0259tkarlara v\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t aras\u0131nda s\u0259rb\u0259st g\u0259zib \u00f6z \u00e7irkin \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rini da-vam etdir\u0259n, insanlar\u0131n b\u0259db\u0259xtliyin\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olan pul h\u0259v\u0259skarlar\u0131na el\u0259 c\u0259za verilm\u0259lidir ki, bundan n\u0259tic\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131ls\u0131n.
\nAz\u0259rbaycan qad\u0131n\u0131n\u0131n saf, t\u0259miz ad\u0131n\u0131 qorumaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u00fct\u00fcn c\u0259miyy\u0259t birg\u0259 s\u0259y g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259lidir. Qeyd etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, ictimaiyy\u0259t aras\u0131nda apar\u0131lan t\u0259bli\u011fat n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 televiziya kanallar\u0131na \u00e7\u0131xan m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nill\u0259rin geyimind\u0259, h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 nisb\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r ba\u015f verib. Bu da insanlar\u0131m\u0131z t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131r. Son zamanlar maraql\u0131 seriallar \u00e7\u0259kilm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flasa da, bunlar\u0131n \u00e7oxu xalq\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rini \u0259ks etdirmir, g\u0259ncl\u0259rin t\u0259rbiy\u0259sin\u0259 m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir, el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259cn\u0259bil\u0259rd\u0259 \u00f6lk\u0259miz haqq\u0131nda yanl\u0131\u015f t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr yarad\u0131r.
\n\u00c7ox t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, b\u0259zi insanlar aras\u0131nda ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rin\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t d\u0259yi\u015fib. \u0130ndi valideynl\u0259rin d\u0259, el\u0259 g\u0259nc q\u0131zlar\u0131n \u00f6zl\u0259rinin d\u0259 el\u00e7i g\u0259l\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 ilk sual\u0131 ail\u0259nin maddi durumu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 olur. S\u00fcni intellekt h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131za o q\u0259d\u0259r daxil olub ki, art\u0131q insani keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259r, hissl\u0259r tamamil\u0259 k\u0259nara qoyulur. B\u0259zi analar is\u0259 b\u0259ri ba\u015fdan el\u00e7il\u0259r\u0259 bildirirl\u0259r ki, \u201cm\u0259nim q\u0131z\u0131m gedib qaynana-qayna-taya qulluq el\u0259m\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k, i\u015f g\u00f6rm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k\u201d. Onsuz da indi ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 ev i\u015fl\u0259rinin \u00e7oxunu m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t texnikas\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Ancaq he\u00e7 bir texnika ail\u0259 oca\u011f\u0131ndak\u0131 h\u00fczuru, istiliyi yaratma\u011fa qa-dir deyil v\u0259 bu v\u0259zif\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259c\u0259k. Bel\u0259 olmayanda is\u0259, bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 art\u0131r, u\u015faqlar valideynl\u0259rin birind\u0259n ayr\u0131 ya\u015famaq m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tind\u0259 qal\u0131rlar. Bu da k\u00f6rp\u0259 ya\u015flar\u0131ndan onlara a\u011f\u0131r z\u0259rb\u0259 olur.
\nBo\u015fanmalar\u0131n bir s\u0259b\u0259bi d\u0259 erk\u0259n nikahd\u0131r v\u0259 haz\u0131rda b\u00fct\u00fcn c\u0259miyy\u0259timiz buna qar\u015f\u0131 c\u0131dd\u0131 m\u00fcbariz\u0259 apar\u0131r. Q\u0131zlar\u0131n vaxt\u0131ndan \u0259vv\u0259l ail\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7iyinl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259l\u0259rinin z\u0259r\u0259ri bar\u0259d\u0259 y\u00fczl\u0259rl\u0259 canl\u0131 n\u00fcmun\u0259 g\u00f6zl\u0259rimiz qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda oldu\u011fu halda, h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 b\u0259zi valideynl\u0259r bundan n\u0259tic\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xarmay\u0131blar. N\u0259dir onlar\u0131 buna m\u0259cbur ed\u0259n? \u018fks\u0259r halda yen\u0259 d\u0259 maddiyyat. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, imkanl\u0131 adamd\u0131r, gedib haz\u0131r evd\u0259 ya\u015fayacaq, \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259km\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. Bel\u0259 valideynl\u0259r unudurlar ki, h\u0259yatda h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u00fcst\u00fcn \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n sa\u011flaml\u0131-\u011f\u0131, onun m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n rahat olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Nikah ya\u015f\u0131ndan tez ail\u0259 qurark\u0259n m\u0259hz bunlar itirilir.
\nHaz\u0131rda nikaha daxil olan g\u0259ncl\u0259rd\u0259n sa\u011flaml\u0131q haqq\u0131nda aray\u0131\u015f\u0131n t\u0259l\u0259b edilm\u0259si, qohumlar aras\u0131nda nikah\u0131n qada\u011fan olunmas\u0131 v\u0259 h\u0259tta, bu g\u00fcnl\u0259rd\u0259 m\u00fczakir\u0259 edildiyi kimi, narkoloji dispanserd\u0259n d\u0259 aray\u0131\u015f ist\u0259nilm\u0259si ail\u0259l\u0259rimizin qorunmas\u0131na, x\u0259st\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259lm\u0259m\u0259sin\u0259 y\u0259qin ki, k\u00f6m\u0259k ed\u0259c\u0259k. Ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rini qorumaqla, ail\u0259y\u0259 ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 oldu\u011fu kimi m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s m\u00fcnasib\u0259timizl\u0259 biz \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz-\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259liyik.
\nAz\u0259rbaycanda, o c\u00fcml\u0259d\u0259n rayonumuzda y\u00fczl\u0259rl\u0259, minl\u0259rl\u0259 ail\u0259 var ki, onlar h\u0259r k\u0259s\u0259 n\u00fcmun\u0259 ola bil\u0259r. Bel\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck-ki\u00e7ik yeri d\u0259 bilinir, \u0259r v\u0259 arvad aras\u0131nda olan m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r d\u0259 g\u0259nc n\u0259sil \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6rn\u0259kdir. H\u0259yat s\u00fcbut edir ki, ail\u0259 m\u00f6hk\u0259m t\u0259m\u0259l \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qurulanda,b\u00fct\u00fcn s\u0131naqlardan \u00fcz\u00fca\u011f \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r.<\/p>\n