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\"1422963363\"<\/a>G\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259 ki, kims\u0259 yax\u0131n adam\u0131n\u0131 itirib, d\u00fc\u015funm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131rsan ki, \u00f6m\u00fcr g\u00f6d\u0259kdir v\u0259 h\u0259r \u015feyi etm\u0259k u\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259l\u0259sm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. H\u0259r bir insan\u0131n \u00f6z a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131, enm\u0259l\u0259ri v\u0259 y\u00fcks\u0259li\u015fi olur. S\u0259n\u0259 \u0259ziz olan adam\u0131 bir daha g\u00f6rm\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259n, e\u015fitm\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259n d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli n\u0259 ola bil\u0259r. H\u0259r g\u00fcn o q\u0259d\u0259r x\u0259b\u0259r e\u015fidirs\u0259n ki! Niy\u0259 h\u0259yat b\u0259z\u0259n bel\u0259 q\u0259ddar olur? U\u015fag\u0131n gunah\u0131 n\u0259dir ki, o, ana qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131 v\u0259 m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259ti olmadan b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259lidir? Bununla bel\u0259 insanlar\u0131n q\u0259ddarl\u0131\u011f\u0131, laqeydliyi g\u00fcnu \u2013 g\u00fcnd\u0259n \u00e7oxal\u0131r. Bir-birin\u0259 yax\u0131n olmaq, ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k, bir \u00e7oxlar\u0131n\u0131n ehtiyac duydu\u011fu m\u0259n\u0259vi k\u00f6m\u0259kliyi etm\u0259k \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259, m\u00fcxt\u0259lif m\u0259nas\u0131z m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259r ba\u015f verir ki, bunlardan da xeyir yox, ziyan g\u0259lir.
\nBir insan\u0131n, bir qad\u0131n\u0131n, anan\u0131n \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc el\u0259 pis n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r ki, bunlar da onun do\u011fmalar\u0131n\u0131n sonrak\u0131 h\u0259yat\u0131na t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir.
\nM\u0259nim g\u00f6zl\u0259rim qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda daim bir ail\u0259 var. Qad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc onun \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n v\u0259 n\u0259v\u0259l\u0259rinin h\u0259yat\u0131na \u00e7ox pis t\u0259sir etdi. \u018fri t\u0259krar evl\u0259ndi, i\u00e7kiy\u0259 qur\u015fand\u0131, u\u015faqlar\u0131 faktiki olaraq ondan imtina etdil\u0259r, onlar\u0131 q\u0259bul etm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259y\u0259n ikinci arvada g\u00f6r\u0259 atalar\u0131na ba\u015f \u00e7\u0259km\u0259dil\u0259r. Q\u0131z\u0131 bo\u015fand\u0131 v\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259siz h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi ke\u00e7irm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131, o\u011ful da n\u0259 ata, n\u0259 d\u0259 bac\u0131 il\u0259 maraqlanmad\u0131. Bununla bel\u0259 o, \u00f6zund\u0259 olmayan \u015f\u0259r\u0259f v\u0259 l\u0259yaq\u0259td\u0259n d\u0259 s\u00f6hb\u0259t edirdi. R\u0259hm\u0259tlik ata \u00f6l\u0259n\u0259d\u0259k birinci h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n q\u0259brini ziyar\u0259t edirdi. O x\u0259st\u0259l\u0259ndi v\u0259 bir ay\u0131n \u0259rzind\u0259 a\u011f\u0131r x\u0259st\u0259likd\u0259n \u00f6ld\u00fc. \u00d6l\u00fcm\u00fcnd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l arvad\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda d\u0259fn olunmas\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259siyy\u0259t etdi.
\n\u0130ndi m\u0259n onun q\u0131z\u0131na bax\u0131ram,hansl ki, pis \u0259m\u0259ld\u0259n \u0259l \u00e7\u0259kib, ancaq h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259 bilmir, evsiz-e\u015fiksiz, i\u015f-sizdir. Qarda\u015f is\u0259 ona dayaq olmaq \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 yaln\u0131z t\u0259hqir edir.
\nO c\u00fcml\u0259d\u0259n bu q\u0131z\u0131n o\u011flu v\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131 da h\u0259yatda \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 yer tapa bilmirl\u0259r. Onlarda ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131na bir nifr\u0259t var. Bu g\u0259ncl\u0259r yaln\u0131z \u00f6zl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, i\u015f karyeras\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ya\u015famaq ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. Onlar h\u0259r ail\u0259d\u0259 vacib olan, valideyn m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259tini vaxt\u0131nda g\u00f6rm\u0259yibl\u0259r. Bunlar n\u0259d\u0259n ba\u015f verir, ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tindir. Niy\u0259 kims\u0259 bel\u0259 a\u011f\u0131r s\u0131naqlardan ke\u00e7m\u0259lidir. Yax\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131, do\u011fmalar\u0131n\u0131 itirirs\u0259n, \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fck z\u0259rb\u0259 al\u0131rsan, ax\u0131, zaman o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 m\u00fcalic\u0259 etmir. A\u011fr\u0131 qal\u0131r. Sad\u0259c\u0259 biz b\u0259rkiyirik, m\u00f6hk\u0259m oluruq, h\u0259yatda m\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r\u0131q. Y\u0259qin, q\u0259ddarl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, laqeydliyimiz d\u0259 el\u0259 buradan g\u0259lir. H\u0259r \u015feyi itirm\u0259k. N\u0259yi qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirirdins\u0259, s\u0259n\u0259 n\u0259 \u0259ziz idis\u0259, bir anda yox olur. G\u00fcn\u0259\u015fli havada ild\u0131r\u0131m \u00e7axmas\u0131 kimi. Soru\u015furuq, hans\u0131 g\u00fcnahlar\u0131m\u0131za g\u00f6r\u0259 tale biziml\u0259 bel\u0259 s\u0259rt r\u0259ftar edir? Ana o\u011flunu itirir v\u0259 birini h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259fn etm\u0259d\u0259n, a\u011flama\u011fa macal tapmadan o birisinin x\u0259b\u0259ri g\u0259lir. Ana \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bundan d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli n\u0259 ola bil\u0259r? Y\u0259qin ki, he\u00e7 n\u0259. T\u0259s\u0259lli verm\u0259y\u0259 s\u00f6z d\u0259 tapm\u0131rsan. Sad\u0259c\u0259 h\u0259r k\u0259s \u00fcr\u0259yinin d\u0259rinliyind\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fc-n\u0259c\u0259k ki, Allah el\u0259m\u0259sin bu m\u0259nim do\u011fmalar\u0131m\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na g\u0259lsin. Sizi \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u0259y\u0259n h\u0259r \u015fey daha g\u00fccl\u00fc edir. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 ya\u015famaq, ba\u015fqalar\u0131na k\u00f6m\u0259k etm\u0259k, xeyirxah olmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r, ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 do\u011fmalar\u0131na, c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131. H\u0259r bir insan n\u0259s\u0259 bir \u015fey ver\u0259, bir-birin\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. Allah insan\u0131 s\u0131na\u011fa \u00e7\u0259kir v\u0259 bundan ke\u00e7m\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Can atd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z v\u0259 g\u00f6rm\u0259k ist\u0259diyimiz\u0259 \u00e7atmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn.<\/p>\n

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G\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259 ki, kims\u0259 yax\u0131n adam\u0131n\u0131 itirib, d\u00fc\u015funm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131rsan ki, \u00f6m\u00fcr g\u00f6d\u0259kdir v\u0259 h\u0259r \u015feyi etm\u0259k u\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259l\u0259sm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. H\u0259r bir insan\u0131n \u00f6z a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131, enm\u0259l\u0259ri v\u0259 y\u00fcks\u0259li\u015fi olur. S\u0259n\u0259 \u0259ziz olan adam\u0131 bir daha g\u00f6rm\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259n, e\u015fitm\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259n d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli n\u0259 ola bil\u0259r. H\u0259r g\u00fcn o q\u0259d\u0259r x\u0259b\u0259r e\u015fidirs\u0259n ki! Niy\u0259 h\u0259yat b\u0259z\u0259n bel\u0259 q\u0259ddar olur? U\u015fag\u0131n gunah\u0131 n\u0259dir […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[32],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2899"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2899"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2899\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2899"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2899"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2899"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}