{"id":27983,"date":"2024-08-16T09:50:23","date_gmt":"2024-08-16T06:50:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/?p=27983"},"modified":"2024-08-16T09:59:46","modified_gmt":"2024-08-16T06:59:46","slug":"qohumlar-arasinda-evliliyin-qadagan-edilm%c9%99sin%c9%99-munasib%c9%99t-nec%c9%99dir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/?p=27983","title":{"rendered":"Qohumlar aras\u0131nda evliliyin qada\u011fan edilm\u0259sin\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t nec\u0259dir?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"Az\u0259rbaycanda qohum evliliyinin qada\u011fan edilm\u0259sin\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t birm\u0259nal\u0131 deyil. B\u0259zil\u0259ri, x\u00fcsu-sil\u0259 ya\u015fl\u0131 n\u0259slin n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259l\u0259ri, \u00f6z fikirl\u0259rind\u0259 qalaraq, bel\u0259 evlilikl\u0259rin t\u0259r\u0259fdar\u0131 olduqlar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u0259yir. Onlar\u0131n da \u00f6z yana\u015fmalar\u0131 var: qohumlar bir-birini tan\u0131y\u0131r, bibi, xala \u00f6z qohumuna pis yana\u015fmaz v\u0259 s. Lakin h\u0259yatda g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fcz hadis\u0259l\u0259r tamamil\u0259 bunun \u0259ksini s\u00f6yl\u0259yir. He\u00e7 d\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 bibi, yaxud xala yax\u015f\u0131 qaynana ola bilmir, \u00fcst\u0259lik g\u0259ncl\u0259rin b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rin m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259ti il\u0259 evl\u0259nm\u0259si d\u0259 bu nikah\u0131 qorumur, n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 \u0259n yax\u0131n qohumlar d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259n olaraq ayr\u0131l\u0131rlar.
\nB\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rd\u0259n f\u0259rqli olaraq, g\u0259ncl\u0259r Az\u0259rbaycanda \u0259mi, xala, bibi v\u0259 day\u0131 u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n evliliyini qada\u011fan ed\u0259n qanunun q\u0259bul edilm\u0259sini alq\u0131\u015flay\u0131rlar. \u0130lk olaraq ona g\u00f6r\u0259 ki, bel\u0259 evlilikl\u0259rd\u0259n \u00e7ox vaxt x\u0259st\u0259 u\u015faqlar d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259lir ki, bu da valideyn \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn a\u011f\u0131r d\u0259rddir. \u0130kincisi, \u0259g\u0259r 60-70 il bundan \u0259vv\u0259l g\u0259ncl\u0259r, \u0259sas\u0259n \u00f6z k\u0259ndl\u0259rind\u0259n ba\u015fqa he\u00e7 yer\u0259 getmir, he\u00e7 kimi tan\u0131m\u0131rd\u0131larsa, indi bel\u0259 deyil. Onlar\u0131n d\u00fczg\u00fcn se\u00e7im etm\u0259k, bir-birini yax\u015f\u0131 tan\u0131maq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u00fct\u00fcn imkanlar\u0131 var. Lakin yax\u015f\u0131 olar ki, bu imkanlar da h\u0259ddini a\u015fmas\u0131n. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, b\u0259zi hallarda bir-birini tan\u0131yan v\u0259 b\u0259y\u0259n\u0259n insanlar\u0131n da evliliyi uzun s\u00fcrm\u00fcr. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 is\u0259 bu nikahdan do\u011fulan v\u0259 ata v\u0259 anan\u0131n aras\u0131nda qalan, yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n say\u0131 art\u0131r. Bu yax\u0131nlarda \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259k b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u0259n bel\u0259 g\u0259nc ana il\u0259 s\u00f6hb\u0259t edirdim. Bildirdi ki, evl\u0259ndiyim insan\u0131n ail\u0259si xo\u015fuma g\u0259lm\u0259diyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ayr\u0131ld\u0131m. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131m\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcm b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcr\u0259m v\u0259 onun xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259r \u015feyi ed\u0259c\u0259m. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, bu ana \u00f6z balas\u0131n\u0131 maddi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n t\u0259min ed\u0259c\u0259k, ona t\u0259hsil ver\u0259c\u0259k, bu, s\u00f6zs\u00fczd\u00fcr. Ancaq ata m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259ti? Bunsuz xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcrm\u00fc? M\u0259nc\u0259, yox, m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. Atas\u0131z b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n u\u015faqlar, x\u00fcsus\u0259n q\u0131zlar, n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r t\u0259min olunsalar da, se\u00e7ilirl\u0259r.
\nOna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259, \u0259ziz g\u0259ncl\u0259r, ail\u0259 qurark\u0259n yaln\u0131z \u00f6z xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyiniz bar\u0259d\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259yin. \u00d6m\u00fcrluk bir h\u0259yata t\u0259l\u0259m-t\u0259l\u0259sik q\u0259rar verm\u0259yin. D\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tir\u0259c\u0259k \u00f6vladlar\u0131 atal\u0131-anal\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn s\u0259birli olun v\u0259 b\u0259z\u0259n g\u00fcz\u0259\u015ft\u0259 getm\u0259yi d\u0259 bacar\u0131n.<\/p>\n

Svetlana Ba\u011f\u0131rova<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Az\u0259rbaycanda qohum evliliyinin qada\u011fan edilm\u0259sin\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t birm\u0259nal\u0131 deyil. B\u0259zil\u0259ri, x\u00fcsu-sil\u0259 ya\u015fl\u0131 n\u0259slin n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259l\u0259ri, \u00f6z fikirl\u0259rind\u0259 qalaraq, bel\u0259 evlilikl\u0259rin t\u0259r\u0259fdar\u0131 olduqlar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u0259yir. Onlar\u0131n da \u00f6z yana\u015fmalar\u0131 var: qohumlar bir-birini tan\u0131y\u0131r, bibi, xala \u00f6z qohumuna pis yana\u015fmaz v\u0259 s. Lakin h\u0259yatda g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fcz hadis\u0259l\u0259r tamamil\u0259 bunun \u0259ksini s\u00f6yl\u0259yir. He\u00e7 d\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 bibi, yaxud xala yax\u015f\u0131 qaynana ola bilmir, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[30],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27983"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=27983"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27983\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27985,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27983\/revisions\/27985"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=27983"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=27983"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=27983"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}