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T\u0259rt\u0259r \u00fczr\u0259 bo\u015fanmalarla ba\u011fl\u0131 statistika h\u0259y\u0259can t\u0259bili \u00e7alma\u011fa m\u0259cbur edir. Rayonda bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 evl\u0259n\u0259nl\u0259rin say\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcst\u0259l\u0259yir. Bu is\u0259 o dem\u0259kdir ki, h\u0259r ay yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n, ata, yaxud ana n\u0259vazi\u015find\u0259n m\u0259hrum olan u\u015faqlar\u0131n say\u0131 art\u0131r.\nBunlar niy\u0259 ba\u015f verir? \u00d6m\u00fcrl\u0259rinin sonuna kimi birg\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011fa b\u0259zi cavanlara mane olan n\u0259dir?
\nSuallar\u0131m\u0131za cavab tapmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6mr\u00fcn ah\u0131l \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n\u0131 h\u00fczur, xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik i\u00e7ind\u0259 ke\u00e7ir\u0259n bir ail\u0259nin qona\u011f\u0131 olduq v\u0259 onlar\u0131n \u00f6m\u00fcr yoluna, h\u0259yat t\u0259rzin\u0259 q\u0131saca bir n\u0259z\u0259r sald\u0131q.
\nX\u0259lil H\u0259s\u0259nov 1938-ci ild\u0259 Hac\u0131q\u0259rv\u0259nd k\u0259ndind\u0259 do\u011fulub. H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 \u018fzim\u0259 H\u0259s\u0259nova da el\u0259 bu k\u0259ndd\u0259 1950-ci ild\u0259 anadan olub. 1971-ci ild\u0259 ail\u0259 qurublar. 5 o\u011ful, 2 q\u0131z, 19 n\u0259v\u0259, 5 n\u0259tic\u0259 sahibidirl\u0259r. 53 ildir ki, bu h\u0259yatda s\u00f6z\u00fcn \u0259sl m\u0259na-s\u0131nda qo\u015fa add\u0131mlay\u0131rlar. H\u0259y\u0259td\u0259-bacada, xeyird\u0259-\u015f\u0259rd\u0259, bazarl\u0131q ed\u0259nd\u0259 ham\u0131 onlar\u0131 bir yerd\u0259 g\u00f6rm\u0259y\u0259 ad\u0259t edib.
\nBu g\u00fcn X\u0259lil ki\u015finin d\u0259, onun \u00f6m\u00fcr-g\u00fcn yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n da \u00fcz\u00fcnd\u0259 el\u0259 bir nur var ki, buna yaln\u0131z yax\u015f\u0131 m\u0259nada h\u0259s\u0259d aparmaq olar.
\nMaraq bizi bir-birinin ard\u0131nca suallar ya\u011fd\u0131rma\u011fa m\u0259cbur edir. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 sevgi bar\u0259d\u0259 soru\u015furuq. \u00d6yr\u0259nirik ki, g\u0259nclik ill\u0259rind\u0259 X\u0259lil H\u0259s\u0259nov G\u0259nc\u0259d\u0259 texnikumda t\u0259hsil al\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. T\u0259hsilini ba\u015fa vurub k\u0259nd\u0259 qay\u0131td\u0131qdan sonra kolxozun in\u015faat briqadas\u0131nda i\u015fl\u0259yib. G\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ail\u0259sinin m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259ti il\u0259 se\u00e7ib, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 ki, h\u0259yatda \u0259n \u00e7ox qiym\u0259t verdiyi nem\u0259tl\u0259r ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ridir \u2013 y\u0259ni qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 h\u00f6rm\u0259t, h\u00fczur, b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131, ail\u0259 ba\u015f\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n yerinin bilinm\u0259si. Bunlar\u0131n ham\u0131s\u0131 X\u0259lil ki\u015finin \u00f6z ail\u0259sind\u0259 vard\u0131, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 \u0259min idi ki, m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6rd\u00fckl\u0259ri q\u0131z da bel\u0259 olacaq. Bir d\u0259 ki, o q\u0131z el\u0259 d\u0259 uzaqda deyil, el\u0259 bu k\u0259ndd\u0259ydi, g\u0259nc X\u0259lil \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 onu g\u00f6r\u00fcb b\u0259y\u0259nmi\u015fdi.
\nOnlar hesab edirl\u0259r ki, xo\u015fb\u0259xt ail\u0259nin t\u0259m\u0259lind\u0259 he\u00e7 d\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 d\u0259lisov sevgi dayanm\u0131r. \u0130ll\u0259r \u0259rzind\u0259 yaranan m\u00f6hk\u0259m ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131q hissl\u0259ri daha g\u00fccl\u00fc olur.
\nM\u00fcasir g\u0259ncl\u0259rin h\u0259yat\u0131na baxanda g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fck ki, \u0259n \u00e7ox naraz\u0131l\u0131qlar m\u0259hz ilk vaxtlarda yaran\u0131r. N\u0259 t\u0259mt\u0259raql\u0131 toy m\u0259rasiml\u0259ri, n\u0259 d\u0259bd\u0259b\u0259li cehiz bu \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259rin \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259n g\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k olmur. \u018fksin\u0259, b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 ilk s\u0259b\u0259b el\u0259 bunlard\u0131r? \u00c7\u00fcnki h\u0259r iki ail\u0259 kimd\u0259ns\u0259 geri qalmamaq xatirin\u0259 xeyli maliyy\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinliyi il\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015fir. B\u0259zil\u0259ri toydan d\u0259rhal sonra kredit g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr, yaxud borc al\u0131rlar. Bel\u0259likl\u0259 d\u0259, musiqi s\u0259dalar\u0131 h\u0259l\u0259 qulaqlar\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0259kilm\u0259mi\u015f, reall\u0131q \u00f6z \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259rir. B\u0259s, ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 nec\u0259 idi?
\nC\u00fctl\u00fcy\u00fcn fikri eynidir:
\n\u2013 Cehiz verm\u0259k, \u00f6vladlara toy el\u0259m\u0259k xalq\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n g\u00f6z\u0259l ad\u0259tidir.
\n\u018fzim\u0259 ana deyir ki, m\u0259n\u0259 d\u0259 valideynl\u0259rim cehiz veribl\u0259r. Yeddi \u00f6vladlar\u0131m\u0131za toy edib, 5 g\u0259lin g\u0259tirmi\u015fik, 2 q\u0131z k\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015f\u00fck. H\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 d\u0259 israf\u00e7\u0131l\u0131qdan qa\u00e7m\u0131\u015f\u0131q, g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz \u00e7atan i\u015fll\u0259ri g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f\u00fck.
\nBu c\u00fctl\u00fck indiy\u0259 kimi X\u0259lil ki\u015finin ata oca\u011f\u0131nda ya\u015fay\u0131r. El\u0259 g\u0259linl\u0259rin 5-i d\u0259 \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259 bu ev\u0259 g\u0259lib, \u018fzim\u0259 anan\u0131n sakit, m\u00fclayim r\u0259ftar\u0131ndan ail\u0259nin h\u0259yat t\u0259rzini \u00f6yr\u0259nibl\u0259r. Sonralar yax\u0131nl\u0131qda o\u011flanlar\u0131n be\u015fin\u0259 d\u0259 ev tikdiribl\u0259r, indi h\u0259r\u0259nin \u00f6z isti oca\u011f\u0131 var. Q\u0131zlar da g\u0259lin k\u00f6\u00e7d\u00fckl\u0259ri ail\u0259d\u0259 analar\u0131n\u0131n t\u00f6vsiy\u0259l\u0259rini unutmurlar.
\n\u018frl\u0259 arvad\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn bir olmas\u0131n\u0131 u\u015faqlara qoyulan adlardan da g\u00f6rm\u0259k olur: V\u0259fadar, Sevdiyar, L\u00fctviyar, \u0130xtiyar, B\u0259xtiyar, \u015eirinnaz, G\u00fclnaz.
\nAta-ana \u00f6vladlar\u0131na var-d\u00f6vl\u0259t verm\u0259yibl\u0259r. Z\u0259hm\u0259tsev\u0259rlik, xeyir-xahl\u0131q, d\u00fczl\u00fck a\u015f\u0131lay\u0131blar. \u00d6zl\u0259ri is\u0259 \u00f6mr\u00fcn ixtiyar \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n\u0131 rahat ya\u015fay\u0131rlar. Bilirl\u0259r ki, u\u015faqlar bir-birin\u0259 arxa-dayaqd\u0131rlar, yax\u015f\u0131 g\u00fcnd\u0259 d\u0259, \u00e7\u0259tinlik olanda da bir-birinin yan\u0131ndad\u0131rlar.
\nAil\u0259nin b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fc V\u0259fadar s\u00f6hb\u0259ti davam etdirir:
\n\u2013 Valideynl\u0259rimiz sa\u011flam h\u0259yat t\u0259rzini biz\u0259 d\u0259 a\u015f\u0131lay\u0131blar. Bu g\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 d\u0259 k\u0259ndd\u0259 n\u00fcbar t\u0259r\u0259v\u0259z m\u0259hsullar\u0131 onlar\u0131n h\u0259y\u0259tind\u0259 yeti\u015fir. Ail\u0259miz meyv\u0259-t\u0259r\u0259v\u0259z, a\u011fart\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn he\u00e7 zaman bazara getm\u0259zdi. \u0130ndi d\u0259 onlar birlikd\u0259 l\u0259k haz\u0131rlay\u0131r, \u0259kin \u0259kir, bundan z\u00f6vq al\u0131rlar. Valideynl\u0259rimizin qohumlarla, qon\u015fularla m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri bizd\u0259n \u00f6tr\u00fc canl\u0131 n\u00fcmun\u0259dir. Kimins\u0259 onlardan incidiyini, naraz\u0131 qald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 e\u015fitm\u0259mi\u015fik.
\n\u00d6vladlar\u0131n ham\u0131s\u0131 haqq\u0131nda dan\u0131\u015f\u0131b oxucular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yormaq ist\u0259mirik. T\u0259kc\u0259 onu dey\u0259k ki, V\u0259fadar 29 il T\u0259rt\u0259r rayon D\u00f6vl\u0259t Yan\u011f\u0131ndan M\u00fchafiz\u0259 \u0130dar\u0259sind\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259yib, haz\u0131rda t\u0259qa\u00fcdd\u0259dir, onun yolunu o\u011flu S\u0259fiyar H\u0259s\u0259nli davam etdirir. Ki\u00e7ik o\u011flu Sadiq h\u0259rbi xidm\u0259td\u0259n bu yax\u0131nlarda qay\u0131d\u0131b. Antiterror \u0259m\u0259liyyat\u0131n\u0131n i\u015ftirak\u00e7\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. X\u00fcsusi t\u0259yinatl\u0131larda xidm\u0259t edib. Q\u0131z\u0131 Hicran ail\u0259 qurub, 3 \u00f6vlad\u0131 var.
\nHac\u0131q\u0259rv\u0259nd k\u0259nd \u0130\u018fD \u00fczr\u0259 icra n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259sinin v\u0259zif\u0259sini icra ed\u0259n El\u00e7in Zeynalov deyir:
\n\u2013 X\u0259lil \u0259mi il\u0259 qon\u015fuyuq. \u0130ndiy\u0259d\u0259k bir d\u0259f\u0259 d\u0259 olsun onun h\u00fcnd\u00fcrd\u0259n dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, kim\u0259s\u0259 ac\u0131ql\u0131 s\u00f6z dediyini e\u015fitm\u0259mi\u015fik. G\u0259ncl\u0259rimiz bel\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n n\u00fcmun\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259lidirl\u0259r.
\nYeddi \u00f6vlad b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u0259n \u018fzim\u0259 anan\u0131n m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 \u00e7ox olub, el\u0259 indi d\u0259 var. Amma o, bunlar\u0131 m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259tl\u0259, ail\u0259sini, \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 sev\u0259-sev\u0259 yerin\u0259 yetirirdi. \u0130ndi qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n g\u00fcnd\u0259lik i\u015fl\u0259rinin \u00e7oxunu m\u00fcasir cihazlar yerin\u0259 yetirir. Ail\u0259d\u0259 i\u015f azal\u0131b, u\u015faqlar\u0131n say\u0131 da azal\u0131b, ancaq onlara ayr\u0131lan vaxt \u00e7oxalmay\u0131b. Probleml\u0259r, bo\u015fanmalar da el\u0259 buradan yaran\u0131r.<\/p>\n