{"id":2303,"date":"2015-12-16T11:45:58","date_gmt":"2015-12-16T08:45:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yeniterter.az\/?p=2303"},"modified":"2015-12-16T11:45:58","modified_gmt":"2015-12-16T08:45:58","slug":"usaq-oxumaq-ist%c9%99mir-yaddasi-pisdir-ona-nec%c9%99-kom%c9%99k-etm%c9%99li","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/?p=2303","title":{"rendered":"U\u015eAQ OXUMAQ \u0130ST\u018fM\u0130R, YADDA\u015eI P\u0130SD\u0130R, ONA NEC\u018f K\u00d6M\u018fK ETM\u018fL\u0130"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"21592\"<\/a>U\u015faqlar\u0131n istedad v\u0259 qabiliyy\u0259tl\u0259rinin vaxt\u0131nda \u00fcz\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131lmas\u0131na v\u0259 onlar\u0131n inki\u015faf etdirilm\u0259sin\u0259 valideynl\u0259rin, m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rin, \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 u\u015faq t\u0259rbiy\u0259si il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olan h\u0259r bir \u015f\u0259xsin c\u0259lb edilm\u0259si v\u0259 bununla da mill\u0259timizin intellektual potensial\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fcks\u0259ldilm\u0259si problemi bizi \u00e7oxdan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcr.
\nSon ill\u0259r m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n haz\u0131rl\u0131q v\u0259ziyy\u0259tinin m\u00fcayin\u0259si g\u00f6s-t\u0259rir ki, onlar\u0131n bir \u00e7oxunun intellektual s\u0259viyy\u0259si ya\u015flar\u0131na uy\u011fun deyil, diqq\u0259ti, hafiz\u0259si z\u0259if inki\u015faf edib, \u0259traf m\u00fchit haqq\u0131nda t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcrl\u0259ri m\u0259hduddur. T\u0259dqiqatlar g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, erk\u0259n ya\u015flar\u0131ndan u\u015faqlarla apar\u0131lan d\u00fczg\u00fcn t\u0259rbiy\u0259 v\u0259 t\u0259lim \u00fcsullar\u0131 onlar\u0131n \u0259qli inki\u015faf\u0131na g\u00fccl\u00fc t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, \u0259g\u0259r 5-6 ya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n diqq\u0259ti z\u0259ifdirs\u0259, davaml\u0131 deyils\u0259, inki\u015fafetdirici test v\u0259 \u0259yl\u0259nc\u0259li oyunlardan istifad\u0259 ed\u0259r\u0259k az m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t n\u0259tic\u0259 almaq olur.
\nH\u0259r bir valideyn \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n oxuma\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259yir. Bunu ilk g\u00fcnd\u0259n, y\u0259ni u\u015faq s\u00f6z\u00fc dem\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zamandan etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. K\u00f6rp\u0259nin beyni a\u011f v\u0259r\u0259q kimidir. H\u0259r bir \u015feyi q\u0259bul edir v\u0259 bunlar silinmir. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ilk g\u00fcnd\u0259n d\u0259rs\u0259, m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 meyl-l\u0259ndirm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bu da vali-deynl\u0259rin \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. \u00c7\u00fcnki u\u015faq \u0259n \u00e7ox vaxt\u0131n\u0131 ana il\u0259 ke\u00e7irir.
\nU\u015fa\u011f\u0131n yadda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n yax\u015f\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259yirsinizs\u0259, beyni \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma\u011fa s\u00f6vq edin. \u00c7ox zaman dar\u0131xd\u0131r\u0131c\u0131, yorucu i\u015f g\u00f6rm\u0259y\u0259 ad\u0259t etmi\u015f beyin \u0259vv\u0259l-ax\u0131r z\u0259if v\u0259 \u0259tal\u0259tli olur. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, u\u015faq televizor qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u00e7ox oturarsa, bu ona yaln\u0131z ziyan g\u0259tir\u0259r. Onun beyni bu elektron \u00e7\u00f6k\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc tozsoran kimi \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kir. Lakin u\u015faq yax\u015f\u0131 kitab oxuyarsa, \u015fahmatla m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olarsa, t\u0259bi\u0259t qoynuna v\u0259 \u015f\u0259h\u0259r\u0259 g\u0259zm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xaraq \u0259traf\u0131 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 ed\u0259rs\u0259, h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir \u0259\u015fyan\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fc d\u00fcz\u0259ld\u0259rs\u0259 v\u0259 ya r\u0259smini \u00e7\u0259k\u0259rs\u0259, beyni daha yax\u00e7\u0131 inki\u015faf etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flayacaq. \u00c7\u00fcnki ona daxil olan informasiyalar\u0131 d\u0259rk etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur olacaq. Beyin bu m\u0259lumatlar\u0131 y\u0131\u011fmaq v\u0259 t\u0259snif ed\u0259r\u0259k laz\u0131ms\u0131zlar\u0131 k\u0259narla\u015fd\u0131rmaq, t\u0259hlil etm\u0259k, fikirl\u0259\u015f\u0259r\u0259k, m\u00fclahiz\u0259 y\u00fcr\u00fctm\u0259k m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tind\u0259 qalacaq.
\nU\u015fa\u011f\u0131n inki\u015faf s\u0259viyy\u0259si \u00f6z ya\u015f d\u00f6vr\u00fc \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn xarakterik olan normalara uy\u011fun g\u0259lmirs\u0259, bu problemi aradan qald\u0131rmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bel\u0259 olduqda m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tdir.
\nHal-haz\u0131rda valideynl\u0259r m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t probleml\u0259ri il\u0259 daha \u00e7ox m\u0259\u015f\u011ful ol-duqlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn u\u015faqlara az diqq\u0259t ay\u0131r\u0131rlar. Ancaq bilm\u0259liyik ki, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k namin\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131 h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n ir\u0259lidir. Biz ham\u0131l\u0131qla \u00e7al\u0131\u015f-mal\u0131y\u0131q ki, u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flam quraq.
\nBuna g\u00f6r\u0259 valideynl\u0259r\u0259 t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 odur ki:
\n\u2013Vaxta\u015f\u0131r\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 m\u00f6vzusunda olan televiziya proqramlar\u0131n\u0131, jurnal m\u0259-qal\u0259l\u0259rini izl\u0259yin v\u0259 bu m\u00f6vzuda kitablar oxuyun;
\n\u2013H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 il\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259sind\u0259 h\u0259mr\u0259y olun;
\n\u2013U\u015faq \u00f6z k\u00f6m\u0259yini t\u0259klif edirs\u0259, i\u015fin icras\u0131 l\u0259ngis\u0259 d\u0259 onu q\u0259bul edin;
\n\u2013U\u015fa\u011fa \u0259mr etm\u0259k deyil, h\u0259m d\u0259 ondan xahi\u015f etm\u0259yi bacar\u0131n;
\n\u2013U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n hormonik inki\u015faf\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fch\u00fcm olan b\u0259d\u0259n t\u0259rbiy\u0259si il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f-\u011ful olmas\u0131n\u0131n qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131na qal\u0131n;
\n\u2013\u201dM\u0259nim vaxt\u0131m yoxdur\u201d\u2013dem\u0259kl\u0259, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fczd\u0259n k\u0259narla\u015fd\u0131rmay\u0131n;
\n\u2013He\u00e7 vaxt u\u015fa\u011fa yalan dem\u0259yin. U\u015faq ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u0259nd\u0259 ki, yalan dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rsan, o \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 yalan dan\u0131\u015fma\u011fa ba\u015flayacaq;
\n\u2013U\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6ym\u0259k d\u00fcz deyil. O, k\u00f6t\u0259kd\u0259n qorxacaq, amma gizlind\u0259 \u00f6z bildiyini ed\u0259c\u0259k;
\n\u2013S\u0259hvi q\u0131\u015fq\u0131raraq v\u0259 q\u0259z\u0259bl\u0259 deyil, n\u00fcmun\u0259 v\u0259 n\u0259sih\u0259tl\u0259 d\u00fcz\u0259ld\u0259rl\u0259r;
\n\u2013Onlar sizin s\u00f6zl\u0259rinizd\u0259n \u00e7ox h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259riniz\u0259 \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259t verirl\u0259r;
\n\u2013He\u00e7 vaxt u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 al\u00e7altmay\u0131n;
\n\u2013\u018fg\u0259r s\u00f6z vermisinizs\u0259, ona \u0259m\u0259l edin;
\n\u2013He\u00e7 vaxt onun yan\u0131nda sirr a\u00e7may\u0131n;
\n\u2013H\u0259yat\u0131n s\u0259rt t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rini ondan gizl\u0259tm\u0259yin;
\n\u2013Onun h\u0259r \u015f\u0131ltaql\u0131\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 hesabla\u015fmay\u0131n;
\n\u2013U\u015faqla \u00f6z aran\u0131zda ziddiyy\u0259t yarat-may\u0131n;
\n\u2013Onunla m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259tli m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 olun;
\n\u2013U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131zla dost olun, onu sevdiyinizi, qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirdiyinizi bildir-m\u0259kd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kinm\u0259yin;
\n\u2013Onun nadincliyini, \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n b\u0259dg\u00fcman olmas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u0259m\u0259zliy\u0259 vur-may\u0131n;
\n\u2013U\u015faqlar sizd\u0259n qayda-qanunu \u00f6yr\u0259nirl\u0259r. Onlara h\u0259r i\u015fd\u0259 n\u00fcmun\u0259 olma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

U\u015faqlar\u0131n istedad v\u0259 qabiliyy\u0259tl\u0259rinin vaxt\u0131nda \u00fcz\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131lmas\u0131na v\u0259 onlar\u0131n inki\u015faf etdirilm\u0259sin\u0259 valideynl\u0259rin, m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rin, \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 u\u015faq t\u0259rbiy\u0259si il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olan h\u0259r bir \u015f\u0259xsin c\u0259lb edilm\u0259si v\u0259 bununla da mill\u0259timizin intellektual potensial\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fcks\u0259ldilm\u0259si problemi bizi \u00e7oxdan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[5],"tags":[15],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2303"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2303"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2303\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2303"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2303"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2303"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}