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\"tenha_ahil_1\"<\/a>Bu yax\u0131nlarda anam\u0131n qohum-lar\u0131ndan biri biz\u0259 qonaq g\u0259lmi\u015fdi. Ah\u0131l ya\u015fda qad\u0131n idi. G\u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259 n\u0259s\u0259 bir bo\u015fluq, \u0259traf\u0131nda ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 bigan\u0259lik hiss etdim. Anamdan \u00f6yr\u0259ndim ki, vaxt\u0131 il\u0259 o, \u00e7ox g\u00f6z\u0259l, yax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259min olunmu\u015f bir qad\u0131n idi. Lakin h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 tez itirmi\u015fdir. Buna baxmayaraq, \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 oxutmu\u015f, nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r, b\u00fct\u00fcn h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 onlara h\u0259sr etmi\u015fdi.
\nAnamla bu qad\u0131n\u0131n s\u00f6hb\u0259tin\u0259 qulaq asd\u0131qca, onun ke\u00e7irdiyi t\u0259\u0259s-s\u00fcf hissini, a\u011fr\u0131-ac\u0131lar\u0131 duyurdum. Qad\u0131nda ya\u015famaq h\u0259v\u0259si qalma-m\u0131\u015fd\u0131. Deyirdi ki, m\u0259n ancaq ham\u0131ya narahat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131q g\u0259tirir\u0259m, o\u011flum \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcm\u00fc g\u00f6zl\u0259yir ki, evimin sahibi olsun. Qad\u0131n yen\u0259 d\u0259 o\u011flunu g\u00fcnahland\u0131rm\u0131r, bildirirdi ki, o, yax\u015f\u0131 o\u011fuldur, ziyal\u0131d\u0131r, \u00e7ox i\u015fl\u0259yir, buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 ona vaxt ay\u0131ra bilmir.
\nBu c\u00fcr hallar t\u0259k deyil. \u00c7ox analar g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f\u0259m ki, \u00f6vladlar\u0131 onlara laz\u0131mi q\u0259d\u0259r qay\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rmirl\u0259r.
\nT\u0259l\u0259b\u0259lik ill\u0259ri yad\u0131ma d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc. O zaman bizi teatra aparm\u0131\u015fd\u0131lar. \u015eekspirin \u201cKral Lir\u201d \u0259s\u0259rinin tama\u015fas\u0131na baxm\u0131\u015fd\u0131q. Orada bel\u0259 bir ifad\u0259 var ki, \u201c\u00f6vladlar\u0131n nankorlu\u011fu ilan\u0131n \u00e7almas\u0131ndan qorxuludur\u201d. Bu s\u00f6zl\u0259rd\u0259 d\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n \u00f6z valideynl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rdikl\u0259ri nankor m\u00fcnasib\u0259t \u00e7ox d\u00fczg\u00fcn ifad\u0259 olunub. B\u0259s, n\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu c\u00fcr o\u011ful v\u0259 q\u0131zlar b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcrl\u0259r? Ax\u0131, ata v\u0259 analar onlar\u0131 m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259tl\u0259 \u0259zizl\u0259yir, h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131n \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l ill\u0259rini \u00f6vladlar\u0131na h\u0259sr edirl\u0259r. U\u015faqlar\u0131na yax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259hsil verm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar ki, onlar ir\u0259li getsinl\u0259r. U\u015faq ist\u0259r pis, ist\u0259r yax\u015f\u0131 xasiyy\u0259td\u0259 olsun, ata v\u0259 ana \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qiym\u0259tlidir, \u0259zizdir. T\u0259krar\u00e7\u0131l\u0131q olmas\u0131n, h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259 ata v\u0259 ana m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259sdir. Onlar biz\u0259 h\u0259yat verir, b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcrl\u0259r, x\u0259st\u0259l\u0259n\u0259nd\u0259 yuxusuz gec\u0259l\u0259r ke\u00e7irirl\u0259r. M\u0259n anam haqq\u0131nda dan\u0131\u015fanda d\u0259rhal g\u00f6zl\u0259rim qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda evimizin istiliyi, rahat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 canlan\u0131r, ata is\u0259 yorulmadan ail\u0259mizin rifah\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan z\u0259hm\u0259tke\u015fdir.
\nB\u0259s, onda at\u0131lm\u0131\u015f ata v\u0259 analar hardand\u0131r? B\u0259lk\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n t\u0259r-biy\u0259sind\u0259 bo\u015fluqlar var? Valideynl\u0259r \u00f6vladlar\u0131na ba\u015fqalar\u0131na minn\u0259tdar olma\u011f\u0131, h\u00f6rm\u0259t etm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259d\u0259 bilm\u0259yibl\u0259r? Dig\u0259rl\u0259rin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259tsizlik n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 bel\u0259 hallara g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. Eqoist, t\u0259rbiy\u0259siz u\u015faqlar b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcrl\u0259r. El\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, n\u0259 ist\u0259s\u0259l\u0259r ed\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r v\u0259 ha-m\u0131n\u0131n onlara borcu var.
\nU\u015faqlar valideynl\u0259rin\u0259 onlar qocald\u0131qda, art\u0131q \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 qulluq ed\u0259 bilm\u0259dikd\u0259 laz\u0131md\u0131rlar. \u00c7\u00fcnki \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259ril\u0259n qay\u011f\u0131n\u0131, qul-lu\u011fu qaytarmaq vaxt\u0131 g\u0259lib \u00e7at\u0131r. \u00d6z valideynl\u0259rini ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n hi-may\u0259sin\u0259, qocalar evl\u0259rin\u0259 ve-r\u0259nl\u0259r nec\u0259 normal ya\u015faya bilirl\u0259r? H\u0259l\u0259 Allaha dualar edir, Ondan n\u0259s\u0259 ist\u0259yir, insanl\u0131q haqq\u0131nda da-n\u0131\u015f\u0131r, \u015fikay\u0259tl\u0259nirl\u0259r ki, h\u0259yat-lar\u0131nda h\u0259r \u015fey alt-\u00fcstd\u00fcr. B\u0259s, nec\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r, niy\u0259 t\u0259\u0259cc\u00fcbl\u0259nir-siniz? Ax\u0131, h\u0259yat bumeranqd\u0131r. Y\u0259ni h\u0259r k\u0259sin el\u0259dikl\u0259ri \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 qay\u0131d\u0131r.
\nValideynl\u0259r h\u0259yata bir d\u0259f\u0259 g\u0259lirl\u0259r. D\u00fcnyada he\u00e7 kim siz\u0259 ata v\u0259 anam\u0131z\u0131 \u0259v\u0259z ed\u0259 bilm\u0259z v\u0259 he\u00e7 bir insan onlar kimi bizim m\u00fcv\u0259f-f\u0259qiyy\u0259tl\u0259rimiz\u0259 sevinm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. Valideynl\u0259rimiz h\u0259yatda n\u0259yimiz varsa, \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. Ata v\u0259 ana-m\u0131za g\u00f6r\u0259 biz ya\u015fay\u0131r\u0131q, yarad\u0131r\u0131q, arzular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 h\u0259yata ke\u00e7iririk. Valideynl\u0259r h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n m\u0259na-s\u0131d\u0131r.
\nOnlar\u0131 sevindirm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r, \u00fcr\u0259kl\u0259rini q\u0131rmaq yox. Onlar d\u00fcn-yadan k\u00f6\u00e7\u0259nd\u0259, daha gec olacaq. G\u0259lin onlar\u0131 qoruyaq. Bu g\u00fcn.<\/p>\n

K\u00f6n\u00fcl Quliyeva<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Bu yax\u0131nlarda anam\u0131n qohum-lar\u0131ndan biri biz\u0259 qonaq g\u0259lmi\u015fdi. Ah\u0131l ya\u015fda qad\u0131n idi. G\u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259 n\u0259s\u0259 bir bo\u015fluq, \u0259traf\u0131nda ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 bigan\u0259lik hiss etdim. Anamdan \u00f6yr\u0259ndim ki, vaxt\u0131 il\u0259 o, \u00e7ox g\u00f6z\u0259l, yax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259min olunmu\u015f bir qad\u0131n idi. Lakin h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 tez itirmi\u015fdir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[28],"tags":[31],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2277"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2277"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2277\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2277"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2277"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2277"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}