{"id":22301,"date":"2022-07-29T08:58:52","date_gmt":"2022-07-29T05:58:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/?p=22301"},"modified":"2022-07-29T08:58:52","modified_gmt":"2022-07-29T05:58:52","slug":"m%c9%99n-bel%c9%99-dusunur%c9%99m-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/?p=22301","title":{"rendered":"M\u0259n bel\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>\u201cB\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l olard\u0131\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>S\u0259h\u0259r tezd\u0259n bu x\u0259b\u0259ri oxumasayd\u0131m, \u201cb\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l olard\u0131\u201d Orta m\u0259kt\u0259bi yenic\u0259 bitirmi\u015f La\u00e7\u0131n adl\u0131 bir q\u0131z yenic\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259m qoymaq ist\u0259diyi g\u0259ncliyin asta-nas\u0131nda intihar edib. S\u0259b\u0259b q\u0259bul imtahanlar\u0131nda az bal toplamas\u0131, valideynl\u0259rinin onun \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259si, t\u0259pkisi. M\u0259ktubunda atam i\u015f\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259 \u201cm\u0259n\u0259 i\u015fd\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r get \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc as, \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u201d, \u2013 dedi yaz\u0131b. O da ail\u0259sin\u0259 son m\u0259ktubunu yaz\u0131b v\u0259 intihar edib. La\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n m\u0259ktubundan onun he\u00e7 d\u0259 savads\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ayd\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr, La\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u0259ktub \u00f6vladlar\u0131na t\u0259pki g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259n b\u00fct\u00fcn valideynl\u0259r\u0259 bir d\u0259rsdir. Q\u0131zc\u0131\u011faz b\u0259lk\u0259 h\u0259y\u0259canl\u0131 olub, b\u0259lk\u0259&#8230; a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 bal toplay\u0131b. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6vlad\u0131n \u00f6z can\u0131na q\u0131ymas\u0131na t\u0259pki g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259kmi laz\u0131md\u0131r?<br \/>\nSon vaxtlar artan intihar hadis\u0259l\u0259ri valideynl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bir h\u0259y\u0259can t\u0259bili deyilmi? Toy g\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc asan g\u0259nc q\u0131z. Ara\u015fd\u0131rma zaman\u0131 m\u0259lum olub ki, q\u0131z ni\u015fanl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n onunla kobud r\u0259ftar etdiyini deyib, anas\u0131 \u201cart\u0131q s\u0259nin toyundur, ay\u0131bd\u0131r\u201d \u2013 deyib, \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n arxas\u0131nda durmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn o da \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolunu intiharda g\u00f6r\u00fcb.<br \/>\nLa\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n m\u0259ktubu m\u0259ni o q\u0259d\u0259r k\u00f6vr\u0259ltdi ki, s\u00f6z tapa bilmir\u0259m. N\u0259 vaxta q\u0259d\u0259r la\u00e7\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z bizim t\u0259k\u0259bb\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn, anlaqs\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n qurban\u0131 olacaq?<!--more--><br \/>\nM\u0259g\u0259r ham\u0131 ali t\u0259hsilli olma-l\u0131d\u0131r, b\u0259lk\u0259 La\u00e7\u0131n ba\u015fqa bir pe\u015f\u0259 se\u00e7ib, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc burada tapacaqd\u0131. Amma&#8230;<br \/>\nOnun m\u0259ktubundan. \u201c&#8230; Bu imtahan d\u00fcnyan\u0131n sonu deyil v\u0259 ya m\u0259nim h\u0259yat\u0131mda son \u015fans\u0131m deyil. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, bunu ail\u0259m ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcr.<br \/>\n&#8230; U\u011fur qazanan \u00f6vlad\u0131 ham\u0131 sevir. Siz m\u0259nim u\u011fursuzlu\u011fumu da sevm\u0259li idiniz. Bacarma-d\u0131n\u0131z. Arxamca t\u00f6k\u00fcl\u0259n g\u00f6z ya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n m\u0259nas\u0131 yoxdur&#8230; M\u0259n daha yoxam. \u018flvida. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l olard\u0131.\u201d<br \/>\nS\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 q\u0259sd etm\u0259s\u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l olard\u0131, q\u0131z\u0131m, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yin qabaqda idi.<br \/>\nValideynl\u0259r, min \u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fctd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fcz \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131za anlaq g\u00f6st\u0259rin, b\u00fct\u00fcn hallarda onlar\u0131n arxas\u0131nda olun ki, onlar da Sizd\u0259n g\u00fcc alma\u011f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259nsinl\u0259r. Art\u0131q La\u00e7\u0131n\u0131 geri qaytarmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcns\u00fczd\u00fcr, ancaq bu yolda olan la\u00e7\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 valideyn qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131, anla\u011f\u0131 intihardan saxlaya bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em><strong>Svetlana \u018fzizova<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cB\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l olard\u0131\u201d S\u0259h\u0259r tezd\u0259n bu x\u0259b\u0259ri oxumasayd\u0131m, \u201cb\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l olard\u0131\u201d Orta m\u0259kt\u0259bi yenic\u0259 bitirmi\u015f La\u00e7\u0131n adl\u0131 bir q\u0131z yenic\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259m qoymaq ist\u0259diyi g\u0259ncliyin asta-nas\u0131nda intihar edib. S\u0259b\u0259b q\u0259bul imtahanlar\u0131nda az bal toplamas\u0131, valideynl\u0259rinin onun \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259si, t\u0259pkisi. M\u0259ktubunda atam i\u015f\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259 \u201cm\u0259n\u0259 i\u015fd\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r get \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc as, \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u201d, \u2013 dedi yaz\u0131b. 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