{"id":22125,"date":"2022-07-07T14:24:18","date_gmt":"2022-07-07T11:24:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/?p=22125"},"modified":"2022-07-07T14:24:18","modified_gmt":"2022-07-07T11:24:18","slug":"butun-dunya-bir-olsa-bir-anam-etm%c9%99z","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/?p=22125","title":{"rendered":"B\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnya bir olsa bir anam etm\u0259z!"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"B\u0259li. B\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnya-al\u0259m bir olsa bir anam etm\u0259z. S\u00f6zs\u00fcz ki, valideynin \u2013 ata-anan\u0131n yerini he\u00e7 kim tuta bilm\u0259z. H\u0259r bir insan \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 valideyn z\u0259hm\u0259ti var. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, \u00f6vlad\u0131yla daha \u00e7ox \u00fcnsiyy\u0259td\u0259 olan anad\u0131r. H\u0259r an \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131na qalan, onun \u0259ziyy\u0259tini \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n, yanl\u0131\u015f fikirl\u0259rd\u0259n uzaq tutan Ana el\u0259 varl\u0131qd\u0131r ki, onun bo\u015flu\u011funu he\u00e7 n\u0259 doldurmaz. B\u0259tnind\u0259 da\u015f\u0131y\u0131b, d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tir\u0259n, x\u0259st\u0259l\u0259ndikd\u0259 s\u0259h\u0259r\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n ba-\u015f\u0131 \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259n ayr\u0131lmayan, onun \u0259ziyy\u0259tini \u00e7\u0259kib b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u0259n \u0259ziz anam\u0131zd\u0131r. Ancaq h\u0259r d\u00fcnyaya \u00f6vlad g\u0259tir\u0259n qad\u0131na da ana ad\u0131n\u0131 verm\u0259k olmaz. \u00d6vlad\u0131n\u0131 at\u0131b ged\u0259n, \u00f6vlad\u0131ndan x\u0259b\u0259ri olmayan, ona qay\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131na \u201cana\u201d dem\u0259k olmaz. \u018ftraf\u0131m\u0131za n\u0259z\u0259r salsaq ana n\u0259vazi\u015find\u0259n m\u0259hrum olmu\u015f y\u00fczl\u0259rl\u0259 k\u00f6rp\u0259, g\u0259nc g\u00f6r\u0259rik. Son vaxtlar k\u00fctl\u0259vi informasiya vasit\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 k\u00f6rp\u0259sini d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirib imtina ed\u0259n qad\u0131nlarla ba\u011fl\u0131 x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259r e\u015fidir, televiziyada bel\u0259 hallar\u0131 \u00e7ox g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fck. H\u0259l\u0259 k\u00f6rp\u0259yk\u0259n imtina edil\u0259n o m\u0259sum varl\u0131qlar\u0131n he\u00e7 bir g\u00fcnah\u0131 yoxdur. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 d\u00fcz deyibl\u0259r, u\u015faq atadan yox, anadan yetim qal\u0131r.
\nValideynin yoxlu\u011fu ya\u015fdan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq h\u0259r bir insan \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7\u0259tindir. \u0130st\u0259r ana, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 ata. Zaman s\u00fcr\u0259tl\u0259 ke\u00e7ir, nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r, g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131b yumursan ki, ill\u0259r \u00f6t\u00fcb. \u0130ll\u0259r \u00f6t\u00fcr, ya\u015f art\u0131r v\u0259 vaxt\u0131nda s\u00f6-z\u00fcn\u00fc dinl\u0259m\u0259diyimiz anam\u0131z\u0131n q\u0259drini ana oldu\u011fumuz zaman ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fck. H\u0259yatdan d\u0259rs \u00e7\u0131xaranlara n\u0259 xo\u015f. G\u00fcman edir\u0259m ki, d\u0259rs \u00e7\u0131xaranlar i\u00e7\u0259risind\u0259 m\u0259n d\u0259 varam. U\u015faql\u0131qdan m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn deyil\u0259n n\u0259sih\u0259tl\u0259rin art\u0131q n\u0259 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259 \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tli oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u0259m. M\u0259nim do\u011fru bildiyim, \u0259slind\u0259 s\u0259hv olan h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rimi art\u0131q anlaya bilir\u0259m. Valideynind\u0259n uzaq ya\u015fayan h\u0259r g\u0259nc onun d\u0259y\u0259rini bilir. H\u0259yat ona n\u0259yin d\u00fczg\u00fcn, n\u0259yin yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu g\u00f6st\u0259rir. B\u0259zi g\u0259ncl\u0259r is\u0259 valideynl\u0259rind\u0259n uzaq ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn s\u0259hv v\u0259 yanl\u0131\u015f add\u0131mlar at\u0131rlar. Bunun s\u0259b\u0259bi daha \u00e7ox \u0259traf m\u00fchitin do\u011fru insanlarla tam \u0259hat\u0259 olmamas\u0131d\u0131r. S\u0259hv add\u0131m atd\u0131qda evd\u0259 anam\u0131z\u0131n dedikl\u0259ri s\u00f6zl\u0259r yad\u0131m\u0131za d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. M\u0259hz bu m\u0259qamlarda anadan uzaqda qalma\u011f\u0131n s\u0131x\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131r, onun d\u0259y\u0259rini daha \u00e7ox anlay\u0131r\u0131q. Anlay\u0131r\u0131q ki, bizi ana kimi qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131qs\u0131z sev\u0259n, d\u0259y\u0259r ver\u0259n ikinci bir varl\u0131q yoxdur. Yad\u0131mdad\u0131r, u\u015faq vaxt\u0131 tez-tez x\u0259st\u0259l\u0259nirdim. Anam\u0131n s\u0259h\u0259r\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r ba\u015f\u0131m \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259n bir an ayr\u0131lmamas\u0131 he\u00e7 yad\u0131mdan \u00e7\u0131xmaz. Sa\u00e7\u0131m\u0131 ox\u015fay\u0131b: \u201cG\u00f6z\u0259l q\u0131z\u0131m\u201d, \u2013 dem\u0259si \u0259n \u015firin k\u0259lm\u0259dir m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn.
\nEvd\u0259 \u00e7ox \u0259rk\u00f6y\u00fcn olan, h\u0259r ist\u0259diyi yerin\u0259 yetiril\u0259n bir g\u0259nc do\u011fma ocaqdan ayr\u0131 qa-landa h\u0259tta \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259r b\u0259y\u0259nm\u0259diyi nem\u0259tl\u0259rin d\u0259y\u0259rini d\u0259 anlay\u0131r. \u018fn duy\u011fusal an is\u0259 sevgisini \u00e7ox bildirm\u0259y\u0259n bir qad\u0131n\u0131n: \u201cQ\u0131z\u0131m, dar\u0131xm\u0131\u015fam, g\u00fcnl\u0259ri say\u0131ram g\u0259lm\u0259yin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn\u201d- dem\u0259sidir. M\u0259saf\u0259l\u0259r h\u0259r bir insana n\u0259yis\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259dir. M\u0259n\u0259 d\u0259 anam\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xmama\u011f\u0131, m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn etdikl\u0259rinin d\u0259y\u0259rini bilm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259tdi. Aytac \u0130brahimin \u015feirind\u0259 deyildiyi kimi:<\/p>\n

G\u0259zs\u0259m d\u0259 d\u00fcnyan\u0131, tapmaram tay\u0131n,<\/strong><\/em>
\nS\u0259nin b\u0259nz\u0259rin yox, anad\u0131r ad\u0131n.<\/strong><\/em>
\nY\u00fcz il d\u0259, min il d\u0259 ke\u00e7s\u0259 d\u0259 inan<\/strong><\/em>
\nS\u0259n m\u0259nim ruhumsan, \u0259n \u00fclvi pay\u0131m.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Valideyn h\u0259yatda olmad\u0131qdan sonra n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r pe\u015fiman olsan da fayda verm\u0259z. Valideynin yan\u0131ndad\u0131rsa, dem\u0259k \u0259n xo\u015fb\u0259xt insan s\u0259ns\u0259n. N\u0259 olur-olsun bizi s\u0259brl\u0259 dinl\u0259y\u0259n, do\u011fru yolu g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259n valideynl\u0259rimizin qiym\u0259tini bil\u0259k ki, sonra pe\u015fiman olmayaq.<\/p>\n

Sevda N\u0259sir,<\/strong><\/em>
\nNax\u00e7\u0131van D\u00f6vl\u0259t Universitetinin Jurnalistika<\/strong><\/em>
\nixtisas\u0131 \u00fczr\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259si<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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B\u0259li. B\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnya-al\u0259m bir olsa bir anam etm\u0259z. S\u00f6zs\u00fcz ki, valideynin \u2013 ata-anan\u0131n yerini he\u00e7 kim tuta bilm\u0259z. H\u0259r bir insan \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 valideyn z\u0259hm\u0259ti var. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, \u00f6vlad\u0131yla daha \u00e7ox \u00fcnsiyy\u0259td\u0259 olan anad\u0131r. H\u0259r an \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131na qalan, onun \u0259ziyy\u0259tini \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n, yanl\u0131\u015f fikirl\u0259rd\u0259n uzaq tutan Ana el\u0259 varl\u0131qd\u0131r ki, onun bo\u015flu\u011funu he\u00e7 n\u0259 doldurmaz. B\u0259tnind\u0259 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[10],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22125"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=22125"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22125\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":22127,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22125\/revisions\/22127"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=22125"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=22125"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=22125"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}