{"id":20716,"date":"2022-02-18T08:59:27","date_gmt":"2022-02-18T05:59:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.yeniterter.az\/?p=20716"},"modified":"2022-02-18T08:59:27","modified_gmt":"2022-02-18T05:59:27","slug":"m%c9%99n-bel%c9%99-dusunur%c9%99m-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/?p=20716","title":{"rendered":"M\u0259n bel\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>M\u00dc\u018fLL\u0130ML\u018fR Y\u00dcKS\u018fK H\u00d6RM\u018fT V\u018f T\u018fM\u0130NATA LAY\u0130QD\u0130RL\u018fR<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-20714 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.yeniterter.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/azedu.az_modern.az-23.08.2021-1629730974_820-300x218.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"228\" height=\"166\" srcset=\"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/azedu.az_modern.az-23.08.2021-1629730974_820-300x218.jpg 300w, https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/azedu.az_modern.az-23.08.2021-1629730974_820.jpg 661w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 228px) 100vw, 228px\" \/>M\u0259tbuatda, saytlarda m\u00fc\u0259llim n\u00fcfuzu bar\u0259d\u0259 ciddi m\u00fczakir\u0259l\u0259r gedir, \u201cAz\u0259rbaycan\u201d q\u0259zetinin ba\u015f re-daktoru, Milli M\u0259clisin deputat\u0131 B\u0259xtiyar Sad\u0131qov, \u0259n \u00e7ox sevdiyim \u201c\u018fdal\u0259t\u201d q\u0259zetinin ba\u015f t\u0259sis\u00e7isi, Milli M\u0259clisin deputat\u0131 Aqil Abbas v\u0259 dig\u0259r ziyal\u0131lar m\u00fczakir\u0259 olunan m\u00f6vzuya \u00f6z m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rini bildirirl\u0259r.<br \/>\nX\u0259yal\u0259n m\u0259n d\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b ill\u0259rin\u0259 qay\u0131d\u0131ram. O vaxt sinif m\u00fc\u0259llimim\u0259 yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015feir yad\u0131ma d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc:<br \/>\n\u0130lk d\u0259f\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 g\u0259ldiyim zaman,<br \/>\n\u201cAna\u201d k\u0259lm\u0259sini \u00f6yr\u0259tdin m\u0259n\u0259.<br \/>\nM\u0259n d\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259r\u0259k o d\u0259qiq\u0259, ham\u0259n<br \/>\n\u00d6vlad kimi sevdim min m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259tl\u0259,<br \/>\nS\u0259ni ikinci ana bildim m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259.<br \/>\n\u0130ndi m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259 ikinci ana kimi baxan \u015fagird varm\u0131? Yen\u0259 d\u0259 bir ha\u015fiy\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131m.<br \/>\nSonbe\u015fik q\u0131z\u0131m bir g\u00fcn d\u0259rsd\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 dedi ki, \u201cana, m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259r bizi d\u00fcz t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etmirl\u0259r\u201d. Soru\u015fdum niy\u0259? Dedi ki, kim h\u0259diyy\u0259 verirs\u0259, onu t\u0259rifl\u0259yirl\u0259r. Bilmirl\u0259r bununla bizd\u0259 r\u00fc\u015fv\u0259t\u0259, yanl\u0131\u015f t\u0259rif\u0259 maraq oyad\u0131rlar?<br \/>\nO, bir q\u0259d\u0259r \u00fcsyankar u\u015faq idi. H\u0259tta universitetd\u0259 oxuyanda m\u00fc\u0259llim bir u\u015fa\u011fa haqs\u0131zl\u0131q etmi\u015f, b\u00fct\u00fcn t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259f \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131\u015f, o is\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259nin d\u00fcz el\u0259diyini demi\u015f v\u0259 el\u0259 oradaca qeyd etmi\u015fdi ki, Siz \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz d\u0259 bilirsiniz ki, haqs\u0131zs\u0131n\u0131z. Ancaq \u0259linizd\u0259 qiym\u0259t yazan q\u0259l\u0259m var dey\u0259, u\u015faqlar qoruxudan Sizin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc t\u0259sdiq edir.<!--more--><br \/>\nV\u0259 yad\u0131ma orta m\u0259kt\u0259b m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rim \u2013 g\u00f6z\u0259l pedaqoq Sabir Pa\u015fayev, \u0259d\u0259biyyat m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259miz Almaz \u018fsg\u0259rova d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Sabir m\u00fc\u0259llimin \u00fcr\u0259yi x\u0259st\u0259 idi. M\u0259n saatlarla dizimi yer\u0259 qoyub yalvar\u0131rd\u0131m ki, onun \u00fcr\u0259yinin a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 m\u0259n\u0259 g\u0259lsin, ona he\u00e7 n\u0259 olmas\u0131n. Niy\u0259? \u00c7\u00fcnki \u0259sil pedaqoq idi. \u015eagirdinin \u00fcr\u0259yin\u0259 yol tapm\u0131\u015fd\u0131lar.<br \/>\nU\u015faqlar m\u00fcxt\u0259lif ail\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 al\u0131rlar. H\u0259r ail\u0259nin d\u0259 \u00f6z qanunlar\u0131 olur. M\u00fcxt\u0259lif qanunlarla idar\u0259 olunan ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xan u\u015faqlar m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 bir qanun alt\u0131nda idar\u0259 olunur. M\u0259nc\u0259, haz\u0131rda m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259 psixoloqlar olsa da, onlar\u0131n \u00e7oxu \u00f6z i\u015fl\u0259rini yax\u015f\u0131 bilmir, \u015fagirdl\u0259r\u0259 f\u0259rdi yana\u015fma yoxdur. \u015eagirdl\u0259ri inand\u0131rmaqdan \u00e7ox, onlara zorla n\u0259 is\u0259 q\u0259bul etdirm\u0259k ist\u0259yirl\u0259r.<br \/>\nBu vaxt is\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259llim v\u0259 \u015fagird aras\u0131nda u\u00e7urum yaran\u0131r. M\u0259n m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rin u\u015fa\u011fa \u015fidd\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259sinin \u0259leyhin\u0259y\u0259m. Ancaq n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 almaq laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, vaxt\u0131nda vurulan \u201csill\u0259\u201d b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 hans\u0131sa cinay\u0259ti t\u00f6r\u0259tm\u0259kd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kindirir. V\u0259 h\u0259r k\u0259s \u00f6z valideynl\u0259rinin verdiyi t\u0259rbiy\u0259 v\u0259 c\u0259za \u00fcsuluna \u00f6yr\u0259nc\u0259lidir.<br \/>\nM\u00fc\u0259llim pe\u015f\u0259si m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259sdir. Biz (s\u00f6hb\u0259t 1969-1979-cu ill\u0259rd\u0259n gedir) el\u0259 bilirdik ki, m\u00fc\u0259llim yem\u0259k yemir, \u00e7ay i\u00e7mir. M\u00fc\u0259llim v\u0259 \u015fagird aras\u0131nda bel\u0259 bir p\u0259rd\u0259 var idi. \u0130ndi el\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259r var ki, u\u015fa\u011fa deyir ki, atana de m\u0259n\u0259 bir quzu g\u00f6nd\u0259rsin, yaxud ba\u015fqa n\u0259 is\u0259&#8230; Bel\u0259likl\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259llim-\u015fagird aras\u0131nda p\u0259rd\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcr. V\u0259&#8230;<br \/>\nSosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 hans\u0131sa m\u00fc\u0259llimin \u015fagird\u0259 sill\u0259 vurmas\u0131, hans\u0131sa m\u00fc\u0259llimin d\u0259rsind\u0259 \u015fagirdin m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 saymamazl\u0131\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 videolar yay\u0131l\u0131r. Bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 T\u0259hsil Nazirliyi direktoru i\u015fd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r, yaxud m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259 t\u00f6hm\u0259t verir.<br \/>\nBununla m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 h\u0259ll olunurmu?<br \/>\nM\u00fc\u0259llim n\u00fcfuzunu qald\u0131rmaq, onlara d\u0259st\u0259k olmaq h\u0259r k\u0259sin borcudur.<br \/>\nN\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 almaq laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rin d\u0259 \u00f6z ail\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131 var. \u018fg\u0259r onlar y\u00fcks\u0259k maa\u015f alsalar, dolan\u0131\u015f\u0131q qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131ndan azad olub, \u015fagirdl\u0259rin\u0259 daha y\u00fcks\u0259k s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 bilik a\u015f\u0131layarlar. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, evd\u0259 minbir qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131 olan m\u00fc\u0259llim d\u0259rsin tez qurtarmas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zl\u0259yib, ev\u0259 \u00e7atma\u011fa t\u0259l\u0259s\u0259c\u0259k, hans\u0131sa ail\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259ll etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015facaq.<br \/>\nM\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259r y\u00fcks\u0259k h\u00f6rm\u0259t\u0259, maddi t\u0259minata layiqdirl\u0259r. Biz is\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131m\u0131-z\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yini etibar etdiyi-miz insanlara h\u00f6rm\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131q.<br \/>\nSvetlana X\u0259yal\u0259<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00dc\u018fLL\u0130ML\u018fR Y\u00dcKS\u018fK H\u00d6RM\u018fT V\u018f T\u018fM\u0130NATA LAY\u0130QD\u0130RL\u018fR M\u0259tbuatda, saytlarda m\u00fc\u0259llim n\u00fcfuzu bar\u0259d\u0259 ciddi m\u00fczakir\u0259l\u0259r gedir, \u201cAz\u0259rbaycan\u201d q\u0259zetinin ba\u015f re-daktoru, Milli M\u0259clisin deputat\u0131 B\u0259xtiyar Sad\u0131qov, \u0259n \u00e7ox sevdiyim \u201c\u018fdal\u0259t\u201d q\u0259zetinin ba\u015f t\u0259sis\u00e7isi, Milli M\u0259clisin deputat\u0131 Aqil Abbas v\u0259 dig\u0259r ziyal\u0131lar m\u00fczakir\u0259 olunan m\u00f6vzuya \u00f6z m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rini bildirirl\u0259r. X\u0259yal\u0259n m\u0259n d\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b ill\u0259rin\u0259 qay\u0131d\u0131ram. O vaxt sinif m\u00fc\u0259llimim\u0259 yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131m [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[5],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20716"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=20716"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20716\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20717,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20716\/revisions\/20717"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=20716"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=20716"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=20716"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}