{"id":20576,"date":"2022-01-31T09:14:45","date_gmt":"2022-01-31T06:14:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.yeniterter.az\/?p=20576"},"modified":"2022-01-31T09:15:46","modified_gmt":"2022-01-31T06:15:46","slug":"m%c9%99n-bel%c9%99-dusunur%c9%99m","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/?p=20576","title":{"rendered":"M\u0259n bel\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 G\u018fL\u0130N, G\u00dcV\u018fN\u0130L\u018fS\u0130 QADIN OLAQ<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-20577 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.yeniterter.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/d29d958s-960-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"215\" height=\"143\" srcset=\"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/d29d958s-960-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/d29d958s-960.jpg 590w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 215px) 100vw, 215px\" \/>Tez-tez internet s\u0259hif\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 hans\u0131sa qad\u0131n\u0131n u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 qoyub ba\u015fqas\u0131 il\u0259 qa\u00e7d\u0131\u011f\u0131, h\u0259tta sevgilisi il\u0259 birl\u0259\u015fib h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 q\u0259tl\u0259 yetir\u0259n qad\u0131nlar haqq\u0131nda da x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259r oxuyuruq.<br \/>\nX\u0259yal\u0259n ke\u00e7mi\u015f\u0259 \u2013 u\u015faql\u0131\u011f\u0131ma qay\u0131d\u0131ram. 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H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131ndan ayr\u0131l\u0131b, sonra ail\u0259 qursunlar. Bu g\u00fcn h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 al\u00e7ald\u0131b, evli ola-ola ba\u015fqas\u0131 il\u0259 qa\u00e7an qad\u0131nlar\u0131 aparanlar, fikirl\u0259\u015fmirl\u0259r ki, sabah da h\u0259min qad\u0131n onlar\u0131 atacaq? Ail\u0259 m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259sdir. X\u0259yan\u0259t \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 qurulan ail\u0259d\u0259 hans\u0131 m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259slik ola bil\u0259r?<br \/>\nG\u0259ncl\u0259rimiz bel\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n hans\u0131 \u00f6rn\u0259k g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259 bil\u0259r?<br \/>\nValideynl\u0259r t\u0259rbiy\u0259d\u0259 hans\u0131 s\u0259hvl\u0259r\u0259 yol verirl\u0259r ki, \u00f6vladlar\u0131 onlar\u0131n ad\u0131na layiq h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t etmir? \u00c7ox d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc v\u0259 utancverici hald\u0131r.<br \/>\nVaxtil\u0259 bir rayonda 1-2 n\u0259f\u0259r, n\u0259n\u0259m demi\u015f, \u201ch\u0259d\u0259-qada\u011fadan \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131\u015f\u201d ki\u015fi, yaxud qad\u0131n olard\u0131. B\u0259s indi? Problem n\u0259dir? Sevib gedirl\u0259r, 1 aydan sonra ay-r\u0131l\u0131rlar.<br \/>\nKe\u00e7mi\u015fi dem\u0259k olar ki, h\u0259r g\u00fcn qam\u00e7\u0131lay\u0131r\u0131q. Ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 valideyn m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259ti il\u0259 ail\u0259 qurulurdu, ancaq mind\u0259 bir ail\u0259 da\u011f\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131.<br \/>\nM\u0259nc\u0259 analar q\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131 ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa haz\u0131rlamal\u0131d\u0131r. Televizya kanallar\u0131nda bir-birind\u0259n f\u0259rqli olmayan ba\u015fqatan \u015fou verili\u015fl\u0259rinin yerin\u0259 maarifl\u0259ndirici verili\u015fl\u0259r olmal\u0131d\u0131r, g\u0259ncl\u0259r ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rini d\u0259rk etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Efir\u0259 el\u0259 insanlar \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b s\u00f6z dem\u0259lidir ki, onlar\u0131n \u00f6z ail\u0259l\u0259ri n\u00fcmun\u0259vi olsun, h\u0259r\u0259 \u00f6z h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131b, ka\u011f\u0131z \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 evli olmas\u0131nlar ki, dedikl\u0259ri s\u00f6z\u00fcn \u00e7\u0259kisi olsun. Qeyr\u0259tsizin qeyr\u0259td\u0259n, \u0259xlaqs\u0131z\u0131n \u0259xlaqdan d\u0259rs ke\u00e7m\u0259yi, ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rind\u0259n dan\u0131\u015fma\u011f\u0131 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r g\u00fcl\u00fcncd\u00fcr. A\u011fl\u0131ma hardasa oxudu\u011fum bir fikir d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc: \u201cSevil\u0259c\u0259k q\u0259d\u0259r g\u00f6z\u0259l olmaqdansa, g\u00fcv\u0259nil\u0259c\u0259k q\u0259d\u0259r qeyr\u0259tli ol!\u201d.<br \/>\nM\u0259nc\u0259 bu, b\u00fct\u00fcn qad\u0131nlara aiddir. Qoy \u00f6vladlar\u0131miz bizd\u0259n s\u0259daq\u0259ti, ab\u0131r-h\u0259yan\u0131, ism\u0259ti, b\u00f6y\u00fck-ki\u00e7ik yeri bilm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259nsinl\u0259r, qurduqlar\u0131 ail\u0259nin t\u0259m\u0259li m\u00f6hk\u0259m olsun.<br \/>\nV\u0259 bir d\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259 el\u0259 g\u0259lir ki, ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rini al\u00e7aldan hadis\u0259l\u0259ri geni\u015f i\u015f\u0131qland\u0131rmaq laz\u0131m deyil. Ancaq bizd\u0259 bu hadis\u0259l\u0259r, n\u0259inki internet s\u0259hif\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259, h\u0259tta televiziya kanallar\u0131nda da yay\u0131mlan\u0131r.<br \/>\n&#8230; \u00c7al\u0131\u015faq h\u0259yatda g\u00fcv\u0259nil\u0259c\u0259k qad\u0131n olaq.<br \/>\nHans\u0131sa filmd\u0259n bel\u0259 bir ifad\u0259 yadda\u015f\u0131mda qal\u0131b: \u201cSiz qad\u0131nlar he\u00e7 vaxt bilmirsiniz ki, biz ki\u015fil\u0259r n\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn birini sevib, ba\u015fqas\u0131 il\u0259 evl\u0259nirik\u201d. B\u0259lk\u0259 bir az fikirl\u0259\u015f\u0259k&#8230;<br \/>\n<em><strong>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Svetlana \u018fzizova<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Redaksiyadan: \u00c7ox aktual bir m\u00f6vzudur. Biz\u0259 el\u0259 g\u0259lir ki, oxucular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n da bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 fikirl\u0259ri olacaq. Nec\u0259 ed\u0259k ki, g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131n, \u00f6vladlar h\u0259r iki valideyni ola-ola yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 b\u00f6-y\u00fcm\u0259sinl\u0259r. Ax\u0131, ist\u0259r-ist\u0259m\u0259z bu, onlar\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat\u0131na, bel\u0259likl\u0259 d\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259timizin inki\u015faf\u0131na t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259c\u0259k. M\u0259ktublar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6zl\u0259yirik, \u0259ziz oxucular!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 G\u018fL\u0130N, G\u00dcV\u018fN\u0130L\u018fS\u0130 QADIN OLAQ Tez-tez internet s\u0259hif\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 hans\u0131sa qad\u0131n\u0131n u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 qoyub ba\u015fqas\u0131 il\u0259 qa\u00e7d\u0131\u011f\u0131, h\u0259tta sevgilisi il\u0259 birl\u0259\u015fib h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[30],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20576"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=20576"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20576\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20579,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20576\/revisions\/20579"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=20576"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=20576"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=20576"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}