{"id":20054,"date":"2021-11-19T10:02:03","date_gmt":"2021-11-19T07:02:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.yeniterter.az\/?p=20054"},"modified":"2021-11-19T10:02:53","modified_gmt":"2021-11-19T07:02:53","slug":"g%c9%99lin-muzakir%c9%99-ed%c9%99k","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/?p=20054","title":{"rendered":"G\u0259lin m\u00fczakir\u0259 ed\u0259k!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u00d6YR\u018fND\u0130KL\u018fR\u0130M\u0130Z, \u00d6YR\u018fTD\u0130KL\u018fR\u0130M\u0130Z<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-20055 alignright\" src=\"http:\/\/www.yeniterter.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/unnamed-19-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"239\" height=\"159\" srcset=\"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/unnamed-19-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/unnamed-19.jpg 512w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 239px) 100vw, 239px\" \/>\u00d6y\u0259ndikl\u0259rimiz d\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259tdikl\u0259rimiz d\u0259 he\u00e7 zaman gec v\u0259 ya tez olmur. B\u0259z\u0259n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fck ki, h\u0259r ikisind\u0259 gec, ya da tezdir. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, yax\u015f\u0131 bilirik ki, \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259yin d\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259tm\u0259yin d\u0259 ya\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 zaman\u0131 yoxdur. Onun h\u0259r ikisi ba\u015fqa biolji t\u0259l\u0259bl\u0259rimiz kimi z\u0259ruridir, vacibdir. Lakin h\u0259m \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259rk\u0259n, h\u0259m \u00f6yr\u0259d\u0259rk\u0259n bilm\u0259liyik ki, n\u0259yi niy\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259nirik, v\u0259 yaxud n\u0259yi niy\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259dirik. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, xeyirlini, faydal\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259li, \u00f6yr\u0259ndiyimizi d\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259tm\u0259liyik. \u0130nsanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259li, insanl\u0131q \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6yr\u0259tm\u0259liyik. Lakin, g\u00f6r\u0259k insanl\u0131q namin\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259ndiyimizi ist\u0259diyimiz kimi \u00f6yr\u0259d\u0259 bilirikmi? H\u0259r birimizin d\u00fcnyag\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u0259ri, qavrama qabiliyy\u0259tl\u0259ri, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri muxt\u0259lif oldu\u011fu kimi, \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259 v\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259tm\u0259 bacar\u0131qlar\u0131 da m\u00fcxt\u0259lif olur. \u00d6yr\u0259nm\u0259yimiz d\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259tm\u0259yimiz d\u0259 f\u0259rdid\u0259n ba\u015flay\u0131b \u00fcmumiy\u0259 do\u011fru y\u00f6n\u0259lir. T\u0259kc\u0259 m\u0259qs\u0259d v\u0259 fikrimiz do\u011fruya, faydal\u0131ya do\u011fru y\u00f6nl\u0259ndirm\u0259yi bacaraq.<br \/>\nBu g\u00fcn h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z o q\u0259d\u0259r qaynar v\u0259 m\u00fcr\u0259kk\u0259bdir ki, \u00e7oxluqlar v\u0259 qeyriadilikl\u0259r i\u00e7\u0259risind\u0259 mat qalmaq, xeyrli-xeyrsizi tapmaqda, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259rimiz v\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259tdikl\u0259rimizd\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259rl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r\u0131q. G\u00f6rm\u0259k, e\u015fitm\u0259k v\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fmaq biz\u0259 sad\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259 bil\u0259r. Lakin, bunlar bizim d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fcz q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 asan deyildir. Bu posesl\u0259r bizim t\u0259f\u0259kk\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 nec\u0259 formala\u015f\u0131r v\u0259 onlar\u0131 nec\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131r\u0131r\u0131q.<br \/>\nH\u0259yatda qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z irili, x\u0131rdal\u0131, yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131-yamanl\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fckl\u0259rimizi v\u0259 e\u015fitdikl\u0259rimizi anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kimi dan\u0131\u015fma\u011fa ad\u0259t etmi\u015fik. Bu bizim h\u0259m \u00f6yr\u0259ndiyimiz, h\u0259m d\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259tdiyimiz hesab olunur. \u0130st\u0259yirik ki, qar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdak\u0131 f\u0259rdl\u0259r d\u0259 el\u0259 bizim kimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcb, bizim kimi qavras\u0131n. B\u0259z\u0259n \u00f6yr\u0259ndiyimizd\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259tdiyimizd\u0259 d\u0259 yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131qlar olur.<br \/>\nSad\u0259 bir misal: Bir ail\u0259nin 6 n\u0259f\u0259r \u00fczv\u00fc var. (daha \u00e7ox da ola bil\u0259r). Baba-n\u0259n\u0259, ata-ana, o\u011ful-q\u0131z. H\u0259r\u0259nin h\u0259yata m\u00fcxt\u0259lif bax\u0131\u015f\u0131, qavramas\u0131, g\u00f6rm\u0259si, e\u015fitm\u0259si v\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131. Eyni \u0259hvalatm\u0131, hadis\u0259mi \u2013 n\u0259 olur olsun h\u0259r k\u0259sin yana\u015fmas\u0131 muxt\u0259lifdir. H\u0259r birimiz deyirik a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 olaq, savadl\u0131 olaq.<!--more--> Bunu bacar\u0131r\u0131qm\u0131? \u00d6z\u00fcm\u00fcz d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fcz kimi \u00f6vladlar\u0131 da m\u0259cbur edirik ki, bizim kimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcns\u00fcn. H\u0259tta m\u0259cbur edirik h\u00f6km\u0259n biz ist\u0259diyimiz, biz dediyimiz olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu vaxt \u00f6vladlar\u0131m\u0131z biz dediyimiz olma\u011fa deyil, bir f\u0259rd olaraq, a\u011fl\u0131nda, beynind\u0259ki kimi h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t etm\u0259y\u0259 meyill\u0259nir. D\u00f6vr\u00fcn, zaman\u0131n t\u0259l\u0259bini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcr\u00fck, \u0259traf\u0131m\u0131zda n\u0259l\u0259rin ba\u015f verdiyin\u0259\u2013m\u0259nfi v\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t g\u00fccl\u0259rin f\u0259rqin\u0259 diqq\u0259t yetirmirik. Sonda hans\u0131 formada olsa kimis\u0259 itiririk\u2013ya m\u0259n\u0259vi, ya cismani. Diqq\u0259t ed\u0259k: \u018fvv\u0259ll\u0259r ai-l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 \u0259n az\u0131 4-5, h\u0259tta 8-10 u\u015faq b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcrd\u00fc. Savads\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n h\u00f6km s\u00fcrd\u00fcy\u00fc ill\u0259r idi. T\u0259k-t\u0259k ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 1 ya 2 n\u0259f\u0259r savadl\u0131 olurdu. Lakin ham\u0131 n\u00fcmun\u0259vi olma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r v\u0259 olurdu da. Bu g\u00fcn is\u0259 \u0259ksin\u0259 bu q\u0259d\u0259r ir\u0259lil\u0259yi\u015fin i\u00e7\u0259risind\u0259 ist\u0259diyimizi ala bilmirik. M\u0259suliyy\u0259tsizlik, b\u00f6y\u00fck-ki\u00e7ik yolu saxlamamaq, narkomanl\u0131q, \u0259l\u0259 bax\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131q, t\u0259nb\u0259llik v\u0259 s. bu kimi hallar ba\u015f al\u0131b gedir. Bunlar\u0131n i\u00e7\u0259risind\u0259 sabah\u0131 nec\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259 bil\u0259rik? Elm- texnika h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q, t\u0259bli\u011fat is\u0259 h\u0259r yerd\u0259 \u2013 evd\u0259, m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259, k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259d\u0259, i\u015fd\u0259. Bel\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r ki, ya yax\u015f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259mi\u015fik v\u0259 ya \u00f6yr\u0259ndiyimizi yax\u015f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259tm\u0259mi\u015fik. N\u0259 valideyn, n\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259llim m\u0259suliyy\u0259tsizlik, narkomanl\u0131q, t\u0259nb\u0259llik v\u0259 s. \u00f6yr\u0259tmir, t\u0259bi\u011f etmir. B\u0259s, onda nec\u0259 ed\u0259k? B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131n daxilind\u0259 v\u0259t\u0259np\u0259rv\u0259rlik bizd\u0259, qeyr\u0259t bizd\u0259. Buna s\u00f6z ola bilm\u0259z. K\u00f6rp\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z da bu ruhda b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcr. \u0130gid, qorxmaz olma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Amma, b\u0259zi neqativ hallardan yaxa qurtarmaq \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tindir. Nec\u0259 ed\u0259k: Siz deyin n\u0259yi nec\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259k v\u0259 nec\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259d\u0259k, \u0259ziz oxucular.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em><strong>Elfuz\u0259 V\u0259liyeva<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u00d6YR\u018fND\u0130KL\u018fR\u0130M\u0130Z, \u00d6YR\u018fTD\u0130KL\u018fR\u0130M\u0130Z \u00d6y\u0259ndikl\u0259rimiz d\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259tdikl\u0259rimiz d\u0259 he\u00e7 zaman gec v\u0259 ya tez olmur. B\u0259z\u0259n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fck ki, h\u0259r ikisind\u0259 gec, ya da tezdir. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, yax\u015f\u0131 bilirik ki, \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259yin d\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259tm\u0259yin d\u0259 ya\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 zaman\u0131 yoxdur. 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