{"id":18247,"date":"2021-05-20T10:25:10","date_gmt":"2021-05-20T07:25:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.yeniterter.az\/?p=18247"},"modified":"2021-05-20T10:25:10","modified_gmt":"2021-05-20T07:25:10","slug":"milli-m%c9%99n%c9%99vi-d%c9%99y%c9%99rl%c9%99rimizi-qoruyaq-17","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/?p=18247","title":{"rendered":"M\u0130LL\u0130-M\u018fN\u018fV\u0130  D\u018fY\u018fRL\u018fR\u0130M\u0130Z\u0130 QORUYAQ"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u0130SLAMDA A\u0130L\u018f \u018fXLAQI<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-18248 alignright\" src=\"http:\/\/www.yeniterter.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/unnamed-1-7-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"182\" height=\"121\" srcset=\"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/unnamed-1-7-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/unnamed-1-7.jpg 512w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 182px) 100vw, 182px\" \/>\u0130slamda ail\u0259 \u0259xlaq\u0131ndan dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131qda ail\u0259daxili m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin m\u0259hz sevgi, qay\u011f\u0131 f\u0259dakarl\u0131q \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qurulmas\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutulur. \u018fg\u0259r ail\u0259d\u0259ki m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qeyd etdiyimiz t\u0259m\u0259ll\u0259r \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qurularsa, bu c\u00fcr ail\u0259 \u0130slam\u0131n biz\u0259 t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 etdiyi \u0259xlaql\u0131 ail\u0259dir. \u0130slam dini ail\u0259nin bir inzibati qurum kimi formala\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259r\u0259fdar\u0131 deyil. Y\u0259ni, \u0130slam dini ail\u0259ni c\u0259miyy\u0259tin t\u0259m\u0259li, bir ki\u00e7ik m\u0259ml\u0259k\u0259t hesab edir. Lakin, \u0130slam dini ail\u0259 ba\u015f\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 idar\u0259 r\u0259hb\u0259ri kimi g\u00f6rm\u0259k ist\u0259mir, o atan\u0131n anaya, \u00f6vlad\u0131na olan m\u00fcnasib\u0259tinin m\u0259n\u0259vi ba\u011flar \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qurulmas\u0131n\u0131, ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259rini f\u0259dakar g\u00f6rm\u0259k ist\u0259yir. \u018fg\u0259r \u00f6vlad ata v\u0259 anan\u0131n m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 bir-biril\u0259rin\u0259 f\u0259dakarl\u0131q g\u00f6r\u0259rs\u0259, art\u0131q o \u00f6z\u00fc m\u0259n\u0259vi bax\u0131mdan inki\u015faf etmi\u015f olacaq. Eyni zamanda \u00f6vlad \u0259g\u0259r bu c\u00fcr ail\u0259d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f olsa, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259c\u0259yi m\u00fchit\u0259 bu zaman t\u0259sir etm\u0259 qabiliyy\u0259ti d\u0259 artm\u0131\u015f olacaq. Hz. \u018fli buyurur: &#8220;\u00d6vladlar\u0131n\u0131z valideynl\u0259rind\u0259n daha \u00e7ox ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u00fchit\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259yir. <!--more-->&#8220;(N\u0259ch\u00fcl-b\u0259la\u011f\u0259) Ayd\u0131n olur ki, ail\u0259 \u00f6vlada n\u0259z\u0259ri t\u0259rbiy\u0259 verdikd\u0259n sonra, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 onu f\u0259rqli bir m\u00fchit g\u00f6zl\u0259yir. \u018fg\u0259r onun qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u00fchit yax\u015f\u0131 deyils\u0259 v\u0259 \u00f6vlad ail\u0259sind\u0259 n\u0259z\u0259ri bax\u0131mdan g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fc t\u0259rbiy\u0259ni \u0259m\u0259li olaraqda g\u00f6rm\u0259yibs\u0259, bu zaman o z\u0259if xarakterli olar v\u0259 m\u00fchit ona t\u0259sir ed\u0259c\u0259k. Amma valideynl\u0259r n\u0259z\u0259ri bax\u0131mdan verdiyi t\u0259rbiy\u0259ni h\u0259m d\u0259 \u0259m\u0259li olaraq \u00f6vlad\u0131na g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259 bils\u0259, \u00f6vlad\u0131n d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcy\u00fc m\u00fchit yax\u015f\u0131 olmasa bel\u0259, o m\u00fchit\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 m\u00fcbariz\u0259 apamaq g\u00fcc\u00fcnd\u0259 olacaq. Ail\u0259 ba\u015f\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259ki m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti d\u0259 \u00e7ox \u00f6n\u0259mlidir. \u00c7\u00fcnki ata h\u0259m ail\u0259 ba\u015f\u00e7\u0131s\u0131, h\u0259m d\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n \u0259n yax\u0131n dostu olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ata \u00f6vlad\u0131na d\u0259s-t\u0259k olmal\u0131, onun arzular\u0131na v\u0259 m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259rin\u0259 \u00e7ata bilm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ona k\u00f6m\u0259k etm\u0259lidir. Burada h\u0259r m\u0259qs\u0259d v\u0259 arzu n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutulmur. C\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 v\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 xeyir g\u0259tir\u0259c\u0259k m\u0259qs\u0259d v\u0259 arzulardan s\u00f6hb\u0259t gedir. Yoxsa ziyanl\u0131, yaln\u0131z \u00f6t\u0259ri h\u0259v\u0259sd\u0259n yaranm\u0131\u015f olan arzu v\u0259 m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259rd\u0259n ata \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259kindirm\u0259lidir. Bunlar\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 v\u0259 ona xeyir g\u0259tirm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yini mehribanl\u0131qla \u00f6vlad\u0131na bildirm\u0259lidir.<br \/>\nAil\u0259d\u0259 toxunulmas\u0131 \u0259n vacib olan n\u00f6qt\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 qad\u0131nd\u0131r. \u0130slam qad\u0131n\u0131n ail\u0259d\u0259 h\u00fcquqlar\u0131n\u0131n qorunmas\u0131na \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck \u00f6n\u0259m verir. Qad\u0131n ail\u0259nin s\u00fctununu meydana g\u0259tir\u0259n f\u0259rdl\u0259rd\u0259n biridir. \u018fks\u0259r ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 ata ail\u0259nin dolan\u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259min etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox zaman evd\u0259 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, ana daha \u00e7ox \u00f6vladla m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olur. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n ana \u00f6vlad\u0131n yax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 almas\u0131nda b\u00f6y\u00fck s\u0259y g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259lidir. Anan\u0131n ataya g\u00f6st\u0259rdiyi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin nec\u0259 olmas\u0131 da \u00f6vlad\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259sind\u0259 \u00e7ox \u00f6n\u0259mlidir. Hz. \u018fli bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 bar\u0259sind\u0259 d\u0259 bel\u0259 buyurur: &#8220;Qad\u0131n\u0131n cihad\u0131 \u0259rin\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 davranmaqd\u0131r&#8221;.<br \/>\nH\u0259r bir \u00f6vlad\u0131n da \u00f6z n\u00f6vb\u0259sind\u0259 valideynl\u0259rinin ita\u0259tind\u0259 durmas\u0131 vacibdir, Uca Allah bu bar\u0259d\u0259 Qurani-K\u0259rimd\u0259 buyurmu\u015fdur: &#8220;R\u0259bbin yaln\u0131z ona ibad\u0259t etm\u0259yi v\u0259 valideynl\u0259r\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131q etm\u0259yi (onlara yax\u015f\u0131 bax\u0131b, g\u00f6z\u0259l davranma\u011f\u0131)buyurmu\u015fdur. \u018fg\u0259r onlardan biri v\u0259 ya h\u0259r ikisi s\u0259nin yan\u0131nda (ya\u015fay\u0131b) qocal\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u0259n d\u00fc\u015fg\u00fcn \u00e7a\u011f\u0131na yet\u0259rs\u0259, onlara: &#8220;Uf!&#8221; bel\u0259 dem\u0259, \u00fcstl\u0259rin\u0259 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131b ac\u0131 s\u00f6z s\u00f6yl\u0259m\u0259. Onlarla xo\u015f dan\u0131\u015f!(\u0130sra -23)<br \/>\nG\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fcy\u00fc kimi, ail\u0259nin h\u0259r bir \u00fczv\u00fc \u00f6z m\u0259suliyy\u0259tini d\u0259rk ets\u0259 v\u0259 ail\u0259nin dig\u0259r \u00fczvl\u0259rin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 \u0130slam\u0131n buyurdu\u011fu kimi diqq\u0259tli, mehriban, xo\u015f r\u0259ftar davranarsa, bu c\u00fcr ail\u0259nin t\u0259m\u0259li sa\u011flam olar. Bel\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rin \u00f6vladlar\u0131 dini d\u0259rk etm\u0259k bax\u0131m\u0131ndan da dig\u0259rl\u0259rind\u0259n m\u00fcsb\u0259t m\u0259nada \u00e7ox f\u0259rql\u0259nir, sa\u011flam d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259li, eyni zamanda ibad\u0259t\u0259, Allah\u0131 tan\u0131ma\u011fa, d\u0259rk etm\u0259y\u0259 meyilli olur. \u00dcmumil\u0259\u015fdirilmi\u015f \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 des\u0259k, \u0130slam ail\u0259daxili hakim qanunlar\u0131n ail\u0259 oca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6nd\u00fcrm\u0259sin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130slam, bu qanunlar\u0131n ail\u0259nin \u00fcmumi rifah\u0131na istiqam\u0259tl\u0259nm\u0259sini h\u0259tta evd\u0259 &#8221; m\u0259nimki , s\u0259ninki&#8221; kimi ifad\u0259l\u0259rin olmamas\u0131n\u0131 ail\u0259nin &#8220;biz&#8221; m\u0259vhumundan ibar\u0259t olmas\u0131n\u0131 t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 edir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u0130SLAMDA A\u0130L\u018f \u018fXLAQI \u0130slamda ail\u0259 \u0259xlaq\u0131ndan dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131qda ail\u0259daxili m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin m\u0259hz sevgi, qay\u011f\u0131 f\u0259dakarl\u0131q \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qurulmas\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutulur. \u018fg\u0259r ail\u0259d\u0259ki m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qeyd etdiyimiz t\u0259m\u0259ll\u0259r \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qurularsa, bu c\u00fcr ail\u0259 \u0130slam\u0131n [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[30],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18247"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=18247"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18247\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18249,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18247\/revisions\/18249"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=18247"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=18247"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=18247"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}