{"id":15041,"date":"2020-02-24T11:06:29","date_gmt":"2020-02-24T08:06:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yeniterter.az\/?p=15041"},"modified":"2020-02-24T12:25:12","modified_gmt":"2020-02-24T09:25:12","slug":"ail%c9%99-milli-m%c9%99n%c9%99vi-d%c9%99y%c9%99rl%c9%99rimizin-dasiyicisidir-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/?p=15041","title":{"rendered":"A\u0130L\u018f M\u0130LL\u0130-M\u018fN\u018fV\u0130 D\u018fY\u018fRL\u018fR\u0130M\u0130Z\u0130N DA\u015eIYICISIDIR"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-15042 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.yeniterter.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/07_caspian_sea_azerbaijan-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"165\" height=\"124\" srcset=\"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/07_caspian_sea_azerbaijan-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/07_caspian_sea_azerbaijan-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/07_caspian_sea_azerbaijan.jpg 850w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 165px) 100vw, 165px\" \/>Az\u0259rbaycan xalq\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn milli-m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r h\u0259r zaman m\u00fch\u00fcm \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259t k\u0259sb edib. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 ail\u0259 tarix\u0259n h\u0259r bir az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s hesab olunub. Ail\u0259 y\u00fcks\u0259k m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rin qoruyucusu olmaqla yana\u015f\u0131, h\u0259m d\u0259 genefondumuzun da\u015f\u0131y\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 kimi inki\u015faf\u0131m\u0131zda m\u00fch\u00fcm rol oynay\u0131r.<br \/>\nAz\u0259rbaycan ail\u0259si h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l milli-ad\u0259t \u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rimizi \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 ya\u015fatmal\u0131d\u0131r. Son ill\u0259rd\u0259 Q\u0259rbd\u0259n daxil olan ad\u0259tl\u0259r bizim milli ad\u0259tl\u0259rimiz\u0259 \u00f6z m\u0259nfi t\u0259sirini g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259kd\u0259 davam edir. A\u00e7\u0131q etiraf etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 h\u0259rk\u0259-h\u0259rk\u0259lik, b\u00f6y\u00fck-ki\u00e7ik, qad\u0131n-ki\u015fi saymazl\u0131\u011f\u0131 milli-mentalitetimiz\u0259 uy\u011fun olmayan t\u0259rbiy\u0259 metodlar\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259rimizin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131na g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r.<!--more--> Bu da\u011f\u0131n\u0131ql\u0131q u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 n\u0259zar\u0259td\u0259n, b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rimizi \u00a0qay\u011f\u0131dan uzaq sal\u0131r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131ya \u00e7ox ciddi sual \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. Nec\u0259 etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, d\u0259d\u0259-baba ad\u0259tl\u0259rimiz, say\u0131l\u0131b-se\u00e7il\u0259n ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimiz unudulmas\u0131n, yaddan \u00e7\u0131xmas\u0131n?<br \/>\nKe\u00e7mi\u015fl\u0259 bu g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz aras\u0131nda xeyli m\u00fcqayis\u0259 yaran\u0131r. Bu, o dem\u0259k deyil ki, el\u0259 yerimizd\u0259 oturub ke\u00e7mi\u015fin fikri-d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si il\u0259 \u00f6mr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc ba\u015fa vuraq, u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da bu ruhda t\u0259rbiy\u0259l\u0259ndir\u0259k. G\u00f6rd\u00fckl\u0259rim v\u0259 e\u015fitdikl\u0259riml\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259 yaratmaq fikrim d\u0259 yoxdur. Amma, bu g\u00fcn m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 etdikl\u0259rim m\u0259ni narahat ed\u0259n faktlard\u0131r. Yax\u015f\u0131 bilir\u0259m ki, \u0259srimiz, el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz, saat\u0131m\u0131z, h\u0259tta d\u0259qiq\u0259l\u0259rimiz elektronla\u015f\u0131b, x\u0259b\u0259r dair\u0259miz geni\u015fl\u0259nib, m\u0259lumat toplama g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz sanki saniy\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcr. Beyinl\u0259r, \u015f\u00fcurlar \u00f6z sferas\u0131ndan daha \u00e7ox y\u00fckl\u0259nir. Do\u011frunu-yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 ay\u0131rd etm\u0259k \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015fir. K\u00f6hn\u0259 fikirl\u0259-t\u0259z\u0259 fikirlilik \u00fcz-\u00fcz\u0259 dayan\u0131b. B\u0259s, bunun hans\u0131n\u0131 se\u00e7\u0259k ki, sabah \u00e7\u0259tin v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015film\u0259sin? Bu g\u00fcn c\u0259miyy\u0259t aras\u0131nda ba\u015f al\u0131b ged\u0259n poz\u011funluq, zorak\u0131l\u0131q, alkoqolizm , narkomanl\u0131q, cinay\u0259tkarl\u0131q v\u0259 sair m\u0259nfi hallar\u0131 t\u00f6r\u0259d\u0259nl\u0259r ax\u0131, ail\u0259l\u0259rimizd\u0259n t\u0259rbiy\u0259 alaraq yeti\u015fmi\u015f \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rdir. He\u00e7 bir valideyn \u00f6vlad\u0131na yanl\u0131\u015f t\u0259rbiy\u0259 verib cinay\u0259tkar, cani, narkoman v\u0259 ya poz\u011funluq ed\u0259n \u015f\u0259xs kimi t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259z. Milli d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimiz Quran\u0131m\u0131zda v\u0259 d\u00f6vl\u0259t qanunlar\u0131m\u0131zda da t\u0259bli\u011f olunmaqdad\u0131r. Bel\u0259 olan halda b\u0259s, son?&#8230; Biz c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn faydal\u0131 in-san\u0131 nec\u0259 yeti\u015fdirm\u0259liyik ?<br \/>\nTa u\u015faql\u0131\u011f\u0131mdan yax\u015f\u0131 tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m ail\u0259 vard\u0131. Burada qad\u0131n\u0131n qad\u0131n kimi, ki\u015fininin ki\u015fi kimi, \u00f6z yeri var\u0131yd\u0131. U\u015faqlar\u0131n n\u0259n\u0259y\u0259, babaya, ata-anaya h\u00f6rm\u0259ti, say\u011f\u0131s\u0131 \u00f6z qaydas\u0131nda idi. H\u0259tta ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259ri aras\u0131ndak\u0131 mehriban\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 n\u00fcmun\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rirdil\u0259r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, ail\u0259d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r ucadan dan\u0131\u015fmazd\u0131lar, bir-birin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 kobudluq edilm\u0259z, t\u0259hqiredici s\u00f6zl\u0259r i\u015fl\u0259nilm\u0259zdi, g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u0259n h\u0259r bir i\u015f m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259 edil\u0259rdi. Ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259ri aras\u0131nda qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 anla\u015fma var\u0131yd\u0131. Burada u\u015faqlar da bel\u0259c\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 al\u0131b b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcrd\u00fcl\u0259r. O zamanlar \u0259ks\u0259r ail\u0259l\u0259r bel\u0259 idi. Bug\u00fcnk\u00fc n\u0259sil is\u0259 o mentaliteti qoruyub saxlama\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u0259k bacar\u0131rm\u0131?<br \/>\nEvd\u0259 baba-n\u0259n\u0259, ata-ana, o\u011ful-q\u0131z var. K\u0259nardan bu ail\u0259ni m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 etm\u0259k fikrin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcm. Ki\u015fil\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131 kobud s\u00f6zl\u0259rl\u0259 t\u0259hqir edir, qad\u0131nlar qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u0259s\u0259bi, qeyri-etik s\u00f6zl\u0259rl\u0259 cavab verir. H\u0259tta h\u0259l\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b ya\u015f\u0131 olmayan k\u00f6rp\u0259 u\u015faqlar da bir-biri il\u0259 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131ra-q\u0131\u015fq\u0131ra dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Dem\u0259k olar ki, h\u0259r k\u0259s s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc, \u00f6z dediyini h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Bel\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 hans\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259d\u0259n s\u00f6z a\u00e7ma\u011fa d\u0259y\u0259r?!<br \/>\nYax\u015f\u0131 yad\u0131mdad\u0131r, bir zamanlar ev\u0259 qonaq g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 s\u00fcfr\u0259y\u0259 h\u0259r c\u00fcr t\u0259amlar qoyulard\u0131. H\u0259tta spirtli i\u00e7ki d\u0259. Amma o s\u00fcfr\u0259d\u0259 qad\u0131n, u\u015faq \u0259yl\u0259\u015fm\u0259zdi. \u0130ndi, yerli-yersiz, s\u00fcfr\u0259y\u0259 spirtli i\u00e7ki d\u00fc-z\u00fcl\u00fcr, azya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015faq da b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259r h\u0259min s\u00fcfr\u0259d\u0259 \u0259yl\u0259\u015fir. Do\u011frudur, b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r: \u201cOlmaz!\u201d\u2013deyir, amma g\u0259l g\u00f6r\u0259k bu azya\u015fl\u0131n\u0131 inad\u0131ndan d\u00f6nd\u0259rm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcrm\u00fc? Bax, el\u0259 h\u0259r \u015fey d\u0259 buradan ba\u015flay\u0131r. Na\u0259lac qal\u0131b, u\u015faqd\u0131r dey\u0259 susuruq v\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259yini g\u00f6zl\u0259yirik. Yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 ay\u0131rd etm\u0259k \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 dolay\u0131s\u0131 il\u0259 onu d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259yirik. B\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259nd\u0259 is\u0259 nec\u0259 olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 Allah bil\u0259r.<br \/>\nKe\u00e7mi\u015fl\u0259rd\u0259 bel\u0259 bir r\u0259vay\u0259t s\u00f6yl\u0259nilirdi: \u201cBir g\u00fcn Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259r (s) \u0259shab\u0259l\u0259rini ba\u015f\u0131na y\u0131\u011f\u0131b deyir ki, m\u0259n el\u0259 ev\u0259 qonaq getm\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m ki, orada m\u0259nd\u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck olmas\u0131n. \u018fshab\u0259l\u0259r d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcb el\u0259 bir ail\u0259ni tap\u0131rlar. H\u0259min ail\u0259y\u0259 x\u0259b\u0259r g\u00f6nd\u0259rirl\u0259r ki, b\u0259s Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259r filan vaxt\u0131 sizin qona\u011f\u0131n\u0131z olacaq, orada g\u0259r\u0259k ondan b\u00f6y\u00fck he\u00e7 k\u0259s olmas\u0131n. Ail\u0259d\u0259 Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259ri g\u00f6z\u0259l qar\u015f\u0131lamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259ld\u0259n-ayaqdan gedirl\u0259r v\u0259 qona\u011f\u0131 ehtiramla qar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131rlar. Bu zaman Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259r bir u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n inadkarcas\u0131na a\u011flamas\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 e\u015fidir. U\u015faq b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rd\u0259n qat\u0131qla s\u00fcd\u00fcn qar\u0131\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 sonra onlar\u0131n bir-birind\u0259n ay\u0131rmalar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259l\u0259b edir. Bunu g\u00f6r\u0259n Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259r \u0259shab\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t edir: \u201cSiz\u0259 dem\u0259dimmi ki, m\u0259ni el\u0259 bir yer\u0259 apar\u0131n orda m\u0259nd\u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck olmas\u0131n? Bu ail\u0259d\u0259 u\u015faq m\u0259nd\u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fckd\u00fcr, onun dediyi h\u00f6km\u0259n olmal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d.<br \/>\nS\u00f6z\u00fcn q\u0131sas\u0131, ail\u0259l\u0259rimizd\u0259 el\u0259 bir m\u00fchit yarad\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r ki, u\u015faq o m\u00fchitd\u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 m\u0259nada yararlana bilsin. \u0130ll\u0259r \u00f6nc\u0259 he\u00e7 bir psixoloq, filan yoxuydu, amma u\u015faqlar indikind\u0259n daha t\u0259rbiy\u0259li idil\u0259r.<br \/>\nAil\u0259l\u0259rimiz el\u0259 bir m\u00fchit yaratmal\u0131d\u0131r ki, u\u015faq \u00f6z ist\u0259diyini inadkarl\u0131qla deyil, etdiyini anlayaraq, \u015f\u00fcurlu sur\u0259td\u0259, ail\u0259y\u0259, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259, c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 l\u0259k\u0259 g\u0259tirm\u0259d\u0259n, milli d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimizi qoruyaraq h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irsin. Nahaqdan ata-babalar\u0131m\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131 ail\u0259nin g\u00fczg\u00fcs\u00fc adland\u0131rmay\u0131blar. Bax, bu g\u00fczg\u00fcy\u0259 baxanda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6z\u0259l g\u00f6rm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn g\u00f6z\u0259l \u00f6vlad t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Ax\u0131, h\u0259r bir ail\u0259 bizim milli d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimizin da\u015f\u0131y\u0131c\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r.<br \/>\nBu g\u00fcn q\u00fcrurland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ail\u0259l\u0259rimiz daha \u00e7oxdur. Ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rini qoruyan, t\u0259rbiy\u0259li, savadl\u0131 \u00f6vladlar b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u0259n ail\u0259l\u0259rimiz y\u00fczl\u0259rl\u0259dir. C\u0259miyy\u0259timizin g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yini g\u00f6z\u0259l g\u00f6rm\u0259k m\u0259qs\u0259di il\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l ail\u0259 qurulmas\u0131na nail olmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r.<br \/>\n<em><strong>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0Elfuz\u0259 V\u018fL\u0130YEVA<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Az\u0259rbaycan xalq\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn milli-m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r h\u0259r zaman m\u00fch\u00fcm \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259t k\u0259sb edib. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 ail\u0259 tarix\u0259n h\u0259r bir az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s hesab olunub. Ail\u0259 y\u00fcks\u0259k m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rin qoruyucusu olmaqla yana\u015f\u0131, h\u0259m d\u0259 genefondumuzun da\u015f\u0131y\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 kimi inki\u015faf\u0131m\u0131zda m\u00fch\u00fcm rol oynay\u0131r. Az\u0259rbaycan ail\u0259si h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l milli-ad\u0259t \u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rimizi \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 ya\u015fatmal\u0131d\u0131r. Son ill\u0259rd\u0259 Q\u0259rbd\u0259n daxil olan ad\u0259tl\u0259r bizim [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[30],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15041"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=15041"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15041\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15099,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15041\/revisions\/15099"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=15041"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=15041"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=15041"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}