{"id":14791,"date":"2020-01-17T10:01:14","date_gmt":"2020-01-17T07:01:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yeniterter.az\/?p=14791"},"modified":"2020-01-17T10:01:28","modified_gmt":"2020-01-17T07:01:28","slug":"dostluq-sarsilmaz-munasib%c9%99tdir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/?p=14791","title":{"rendered":"DOSTLUQ SARSILMAZ M\u00dcNAS\u0130B\u018fTD\u0130R"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"Ya\u015f\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq h\u0259r k\u0259sin \u0259hat\u0259sind\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259, i\u015fd\u0259 v\u0259 do\u011fmalar\u0131n aras\u0131nda ona daha yax\u0131n sirda\u015f v\u0259 dost adamlar olur. Dostlar\u0131 bir-birin\u0259 ba\u011flayan \u0259n saf hiss h\u0259tta ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259ri il\u0259 payla\u015fa bilm\u0259dikl\u0259rini bir-biri il\u0259 b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fm\u0259kdir. \u018fsl dost b\u00fct\u00fcn m\u0259qamlarda d\u0259st\u0259yini bizd\u0259n \u0259sirg\u0259m\u0259y\u0259n adamd\u0131r. Atalar m\u0259s\u0259lidir: \u201cQarda\u015f\u0131n nec\u0259 adamd\u0131r?\u201d
\nCavab verirl\u0259r: \u201cBilmir\u0259m, yolda\u015f olmam\u0131\u015fam\u201d. B\u0259zil\u0259ri d\u0259 deyir ki, dost insan\u0131n ail\u0259sidir. Bunu dey\u0259nl\u0259r yanl\u0131\u015f fikirl\u0259\u015firl\u0259r. Dostluqda m\u00f6hk\u0259m olmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, bunu qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n d\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 bil\u0259s\u0259n. \u0130nsani duy\u011fu olan dostluqda v\u0259fa, etibar, h\u00f6rm\u0259t, s\u0259mimiyy\u0259t v\u0259 m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259t h\u00f6km s\u00fcrm\u0259lidir. Yax\u015f\u0131 dost \u00f6z yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 da do\u011fru yola d\u0259v\u0259t ed\u0259r, onun m\u0259n\u0259viyyat\u0131n\u0131n z\u0259nginl\u0259\u015fm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259lind\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259n k\u00f6m\u0259kliyi g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259r. A\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 adamlarla dostluq ed\u0259nl\u0259r h\u0259yatda m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259qiyy\u0259tl\u0259r qazan\u0131rlar. Bu haqda hikm\u0259tli atalar s\u00f6zl\u0259ri vard\u0131r: \u201cA\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259n nadan dostdan yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r\u201d; \u201cDo\u011fru dostluq q\u0259r\u0259zsiz olar\u201d; \u201cYolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ni\u015fan ver, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc tan\u0131t\u201d; \u201cA\u011fac k\u00f6kl\u0259ri il\u0259 insan dostlar\u0131 il\u0259 var olar\u201d; \u201cDost dosta t\u0259n g\u0259r\u0259k, t\u0259n olmasa gen g\u0259r\u0259k\u201d; \u201cH\u0259r \u015feyin t\u0259z\u0259si, dostun k\u00f6hn\u0259si\u201d; \u201cDost dosta yaman g\u00fcnd\u0259 g\u0259r\u0259kdir\u201d; \u201cDost ziyankar olmaz, ziyankar da dost olmaz\u201d \u201cDost yolunda boran olar, qar olar\u201d v\u0259 s. \u018fn \u015firin xatir\u0259l\u0259r dostlarla ba\u011fl\u0131 olan xatir\u0259l\u0259rdir. Dost se\u00e7\u0259nd\u0259 h\u0259min insan\u0131 yax\u015f\u0131 tan\u0131mal\u0131y\u0131q. Dostluqda maddi t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n deyil, g\u0259r\u0259k m\u0259n\u0259vi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n b\u0259rab\u0259rlik olsun. S\u00f6zs\u00fcz ki, bu m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 olan insanlar\u0131n xasiyy\u0259tind\u0259 ox\u015farl\u0131q vard\u0131r.
\nDost dar g\u00fcnd\u0259 tan\u0131nar deyirl\u0259r amma el\u0259 \u015fad vaxtlar\u0131m\u0131zda da onlara ehtiyac duyuruq. Sars\u0131lmaz dostluq bird\u0259n-bir\u0259 yaranm\u0131r. N\u0259 vaxtsa dostluq haqq\u0131nda bir hekay\u0259 oxumu\u015fdum. O hekay\u0259d\u0259 deyilirdi ki: \u201cBir-birini \u00e7ox sev\u0259n iki s\u0259mimi dost birlikd\u0259 s\u0259yah\u0259t\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131rlar. Nec\u0259 olursa aralar\u0131nda m\u00fcbahis\u0259 yaran\u0131r. Dostun biri o birisin\u0259 sill\u0259 vurur. Vurulan qumun \u00fcst\u0259: \u201cBu g\u00fcn \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 dostum m\u0259n\u0259 bir sill\u0259 vurdu\u201d. <\/strong><\/em>
\nSoru\u015fanda deyir:<\/strong><\/em>
\nSonra onu \u00f6l\u00fcmd\u0259n xilas ed\u0259nd\u0259 b\u0131\u00e7aqla da\u015f\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 yaz\u0131r: \u201cBu g\u00fcn \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 bir dostum m\u0259ni \u00f6l\u00fcmd\u0259n xilas etdi\u201d <\/strong><\/em>
\nDost\u00fc g\u00fcl\u00fcms\u0259yib dedi:<\/strong><\/em>
\n-S\u0259n m\u0259n\u0259 sill\u0259 vuranda “Bu g\u00fcn \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 dostum m\u0259n\u0259 sill\u0259 vurdu” s\u00f6zl\u0259rini quma yazd\u0131m ki, \u0259s\u0259n k\u00fcl\u0259kl\u0259r yaz\u0131n\u0131 silib apars\u0131n v\u0259 s\u0259nin bu h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tini tezlikl\u0259 unudum. M\u0259ni bo\u011fulmaqdan xilas ed\u0259nd\u0259 is\u0259 bunu da\u015flara yazd\u0131m ki, he\u00e7 bir k\u00fcl\u0259k dostlu\u011fumuzu silib aparmas\u0131n.<\/strong><\/em>
\nFikrimc\u0259, s\u0259mimi \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t h\u0259r x\u0131rda \u015feyin \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 pozulmaz, daimi olar. Dostluqda ba\u011f\u0131\u015flama\u011f\u0131 bacarmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Az\u0259rbaycan alimi v\u0259 d\u00f6vl\u0259t xadimi N\u0259sr\u0259ddin Tusi deyib ki, eyibsiz dost axtaran ax\u0131rda dostsuz qalar.
\nBu atalar s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc d\u0259 unutmayaq: \u201cV\u0259fal\u0131 dost yad olmaz, g\u00f6rm\u0259s\u0259 y\u00fcz il s\u0259ni\u201d.
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Ya\u015f\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq h\u0259r k\u0259sin \u0259hat\u0259sind\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259, i\u015fd\u0259 v\u0259 do\u011fmalar\u0131n aras\u0131nda ona daha yax\u0131n sirda\u015f v\u0259 dost adamlar olur. Dostlar\u0131 bir-birin\u0259 ba\u011flayan \u0259n saf hiss h\u0259tta ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259ri il\u0259 payla\u015fa bilm\u0259dikl\u0259rini bir-biri il\u0259 b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fm\u0259kdir. \u018fsl dost b\u00fct\u00fcn m\u0259qamlarda d\u0259st\u0259yini bizd\u0259n \u0259sirg\u0259m\u0259y\u0259n adamd\u0131r. Atalar m\u0259s\u0259lidir: \u201cQarda\u015f\u0131n nec\u0259 adamd\u0131r?\u201d Cavab verirl\u0259r: \u201cBilmir\u0259m, yolda\u015f olmam\u0131\u015fam\u201d. B\u0259zil\u0259ri d\u0259 deyir […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[10],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14791"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14791"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14791\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14791"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14791"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14791"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}