{"id":13978,"date":"2019-10-30T09:37:35","date_gmt":"2019-10-30T06:37:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yeniterter.az\/?p=13978"},"modified":"2019-10-30T09:48:58","modified_gmt":"2019-10-30T06:48:58","slug":"ail%c9%99l%c9%99r-niy%c9%99-dagilir-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/?p=13978","title":{"rendered":"A\u0130L\u018fL\u018fR N\u0130Y\u018f DA\u011eILIR?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"Qay\u0131q iki avar\u0131n eyni anda h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t etm\u0259si il\u0259 \u00fcz\u00fcr, avarlar\u0131n h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259ti bir-birin\u0259 uy\u011fun g\u0259lm\u0259s\u0259, dal\u011falar qay\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u015f\u0131rar. Evlilik d\u0259 qay\u0131q kimidir.<\/strong><\/em>
\n\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Julian Edvin Levi<\/strong><\/em>
\nM\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 ciddi narahatl\u0131qlara s\u0259b\u0259b olan amill\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 b\u0259zi nikahlar\u0131n u\u011fursuz n\u0259tic\u0259 verm\u0259sidir. D\u00f6vl\u0259timizin g\u00fccl\u00fc olmas\u0131, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k n\u0259slin sa\u011flam b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259si qurulan evlilikl\u0259rd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. Hal-haz\u0131rda \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 m\u00f6ht\u0259r\u0259m Prezidentimizin say\u0259sind\u0259 ail\u0259 siyas\u0259ti u\u011furla h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irilir.
\nAil\u0259nin t\u0259m\u0259linin m\u00f6hk\u0259m olmas\u0131 evl\u0259n\u0259n c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. U\u011furlu nikah \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn g\u0259ncl\u0259r ail\u0259 m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tin\u0259 yiy\u0259l\u0259nm\u0259lidir. Bo\u015fanma hallar\u0131, b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnya \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 oldu\u011fu kimi, milli-m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r\u0259 sadiq olan Az\u0259rbaycanda da \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir. Xalq\u0131m\u0131z h\u0259r zaman ail\u0259ni m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s bilmi\u015f, a\u011fsaqqal v\u0259 a\u011fbir\u00e7\u0259kl\u0259rimiz onu n\u0259yin bahas\u0131na olursa-olsun qoruyub saxlama\u011f\u0131 t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 etmi\u015fdir. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259r olsun ki, h\u0259min qayda-qanunlara bir \u00e7ox g\u0259ncl\u0259r riay\u0259t etmirl\u0259r. 2018-ci ild\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycanda 14857 bo\u015fanma hal\u0131 qeyd\u0259 al\u0131nm\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. Ke\u00e7\u0259n il \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olmayan 6559 n\u0259f\u0259r bo\u015fan\u0131b. 2019-cu ilin 6 ay\u0131nda qeydiyyat \u015f\u00f6b\u0259l\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n 29391 nikah v\u0259 8257 bo\u015fanma hallar\u0131 qeyd\u0259 al\u0131nm\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. \u00d6t\u0259n ilin m\u00fcvafiq d\u00f6vr\u00fc il\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 \u0259halinin h\u0259r 1000 n\u0259f\u0259rin\u0259 nikahlar\u0131n say\u0131 5,7-d\u0259n 6-ya, bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 is\u0259 1,5-d\u0259n 1,7-y\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r artm\u0131\u015fd\u0131r.
\nBu sah\u0259d\u0259 T\u0259rt\u0259r rayonunda da v\u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00fcr\u0259ka\u00e7an deyildir. 2018-ci ild\u0259 rayonumuzda 511 nikah qeyd\u0259 al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f, 146 bo\u015fanma hal\u0131 ba\u015f vermi\u015fdir. 2019-cu ilin 6 ay\u0131nda is\u0259 280 nikah, 76 bo\u015fanma hadis\u0259si olmu\u015fdur. Son 3 ild\u0259 T\u0259rt\u0259r rayonunda bo\u015fanma hallar\u0131 dinamik \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 artm\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. Bel\u0259 ki, \u0259g\u0259r 2016-c\u0131 ild\u0259 104 bo\u015fanma hadis\u0259si qeyd\u0259 al\u0131nm\u0131\u015fd\u0131rsa, 2017-ci ild\u0259 bu r\u0259q\u0259m 119, 2018-ci ild\u0259 is\u0259 bundan 29 fakt art\u0131q olmu\u015fdur. 2014-c\u00fc ild\u0259 is\u0259 qeydiyyat \u015f\u00f6b\u0259si t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n c\u0259mi 98 bo\u015fanma hal\u0131 qeyd\u0259 al\u0131nm\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. R\u0259q\u0259ml\u0259r onu g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, bu bar\u0259d\u0259 ciddi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259yin vaxt\u0131 \u00e7atm\u0131\u015fd\u0131r.
\nH\u0259r x\u0131rda s\u00f6z-s\u00f6hb\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259l\u0259r da\u011f\u0131lmamal\u0131d\u0131r. G\u0259r\u0259k g\u00fcz\u0259\u015ft\u0259 getm\u0259yi bacarasan. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r bo\u015fanmaq ist\u0259y\u0259n c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r\u0259 ail\u0259nin d\u0259y\u0259rini, \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tini ba\u015fa salmaqla onlar\u0131 fikrind\u0259n da\u015f\u0131nd\u0131ra bil\u0259rl\u0259r. Ail\u0259nin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131na bir \u00e7ox s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r vard\u0131r: x\u0259yan\u0259t, alkoqollu i\u00e7kil\u0259r v\u0259 narkotikd\u0259n istifad\u0259, xasiyy\u0259t uy\u011funsuzlu\u011fu, sonsuzluq, valideynl\u0259rin t\u0259kidi il\u0259 ba\u015f tutan evlilik v\u0259 s. Birinci s\u0259b\u0259b is\u0259 ail\u0259nin n\u0259 oldu\u011funu bilm\u0259d\u0259n nikaha girm\u0259kdir. B\u0259z\u0259n k\u0259nar \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r ail\u0259y\u0259 t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, xan\u0131mlar\u0131n r\u0259fiq\u0259si m\u0259nim h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131m bel\u0259 geyinm\u0259y\u0259 icaz\u0259 verir s\u0259ninki yox v\u0259 ya b\u0259yl\u0259rin dostlar\u0131 m\u0259n\u0259 yolda\u015f\u0131m t\u0259r\u0259f bel\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k etdi v\u0259 s. ifad\u0259l\u0259rin t\u0259siri d\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r aras\u0131nda soyuqluq yarada bil\u0259r. B\u0259z\u0259n c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin \u00e7ox vaxtlar\u0131n\u0131 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 ke\u00e7irm\u0259si onlar\u0131n h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na v\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131na vaxt ay\u0131rmas\u0131na imkan vermir. Ail\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259tini ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259r ail\u0259ni ax\u0131ra q\u0259d\u0259r qoruya bilmirl\u0259r v\u0259 sonda pe\u015fman\u00e7\u0131l\u0131q \u00e7\u0259kirl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki ail\u0259 qurmaq n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r asand\u0131rsa onu qoruyub saxlamaq da bir o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7\u0259tindir. Ail\u0259d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck m\u0259suliyy\u0259t olmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki bu nikah\u0131n n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259lir. Bir \u00e7ox g\u0259ncl\u0259r imkanl\u0131 adamlar\u0131n q\u0131zlar\u0131 il\u0259 ail\u0259 qurmaq ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. Ham\u0131ya m\u0259lumdur ki, bu m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259 qurulan ail\u0259l\u0259r uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t davam etmir v\u0259 d\u00f6z\u00fclm\u0259z hallar yaran\u0131r. Bunun n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 d\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259r da\u011f\u0131l\u0131r.
\n\u00c7ox c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r bo\u015fand\u0131qdan sonra \u00f6vlada bigan\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t b\u0259sl\u0259yir v\u0259 u\u015faqlar h\u0259m maddi, h\u0259m d\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kirl\u0259r. Ail\u0259 m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259si t\u0259kc\u0259 bo\u015fanma il\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nmir. Bu, u\u015faqlara v\u0259 yax\u0131nlara da m\u0259n\u0259vi z\u0259rb\u0259dir. Ayr\u0131lan \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131rlar ki, u\u015faqlar bundan \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259km\u0259sinl\u0259r v\u0259 \u0259n \u0259sas\u0131 da \u00f6zl\u0259rini yaln\u0131z hiss etm\u0259sinl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki valideynl\u0259rin h\u0259yat yollar\u0131n\u0131n ayr\u0131lmas\u0131 u\u015faqlara psixoloji c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n ciddi z\u0259rb\u0259 vurur. Onlar art\u0131q h\u0259yatdan k\u00fcsk\u00fcn kimi formala\u015fma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131rlar. H\u0259m\u00e7inin u\u015faq hans\u0131 valideynin yan\u0131nda b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcrs\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 nifr\u0259t hissi yaratmaq, onlar\u0131 dig\u0259r qohumlar\u0131 il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259kd\u0259n m\u0259hrum etm\u0259k v\u0259 s. kimi hallar ba\u015f verir. T\u0259k qalan valideynl\u0259rin is\u0259 \u00f6hd\u0259likl\u0259ri daha da art\u0131r. H\u0259r ikisinin t\u0259rbiy\u0259si il\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259li oldu\u011fu halda b\u00fct\u00fcn m\u0259suliyy\u0259t bir n\u0259f\u0259rin \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Nikahlar\u0131n\u0131 pozan g\u0259ncl\u0259r fikirl\u0259\u015fm\u0259lidirl\u0259r ki, h\u0259min \u00f6vlad onlar\u0131n h\u0259r ikisin\u0259 m\u0259xsusdur.<\/p>\n

N\u00fcbar XANLARQIZI<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Qay\u0131q iki avar\u0131n eyni anda h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t etm\u0259si il\u0259 \u00fcz\u00fcr, avarlar\u0131n h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259ti bir-birin\u0259 uy\u011fun g\u0259lm\u0259s\u0259, dal\u011falar qay\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u015f\u0131rar. Evlilik d\u0259 qay\u0131q kimidir. \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Julian Edvin Levi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[30],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13978"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=13978"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13978\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=13978"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=13978"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=13978"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}