{"id":11317,"date":"2019-01-10T09:40:49","date_gmt":"2019-01-10T06:40:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yeniterter.az\/?p=11317"},"modified":"2019-01-10T10:30:44","modified_gmt":"2019-01-10T07:30:44","slug":"milli-m%c9%99n%c9%99vi-d%c9%99y%c9%99rl%c9%99rimizi-qoruyaq-5","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/?p=11317","title":{"rendered":"Milli-m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimizi qoruyaq"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>HE\u00c7 OLMASA H\u018fRD\u018fN \u201cD\u018fL\u0130 K\u00dcR\u201d\u00fc XATIRLAYIN<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-11318 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.yeniterter.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/\u0441\u043a\u0430\u0447\u0430\u043d\u043d\u044b\u0435-\u0444\u0430\u0439\u043b\u044b-17.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"227\" height=\"162\" \/>A\u011fl\u0131m k\u0259s\u0259nd\u0259n, ail\u0259d\u0259n, qohum-qon\u015fudan, t\u0259hsil ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259n, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u015f yerind\u0259n anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m, duydu\u011fum d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimizi he\u00e7 bir \u00f6lk\u0259nin, mill\u0259tin d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rin\u0259 tay tutmam\u0131\u015fam. H\u0259m ad\u0259tl\u0259rimiz, m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259timiz, m\u0259tb\u0259ximiz, t\u0259rbiy\u0259miz, h\u0259tta qanunlar\u0131m\u0131z bel\u0259 \u00f6z \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fc-bi\u00e7imind\u0259, aliliyind\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 f\u0259rql\u0259nib v\u0259 f\u0259rql\u0259nir. Lakin m\u00fcasir d\u00f6vr\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 b\u0259z\u0259n hardasa yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131q, sarpmalar \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir. Bunu m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259l\u0259rim\u0259 \u0259saslanaraq q\u0259l\u0259m\u0259 al\u0131ram. Bu i\u015fd\u0259 \u0259traf m\u00fchitin t\u0259sirinin g\u00fcc\u00fc d\u0259 \u0259sas rol oynay\u0131r. B\u0259z\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259rimiz \u0259traf t\u0259sird\u0259n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclm\u0259mi\u015f s\u0259hv istiqam\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 meyll\u0259nir, n\u0259sil-n\u0259cab\u0259tin\u0259 yara\u015fmayan, ail\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259, do\u011fmalar\u0131na, h\u0259tta \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 utand\u0131r\u0131c\u0131, t\u00f6hm\u0259t g\u0259tir\u0259n h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r edirl\u0259r. \u00d6z \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rini anlayanda is\u0259 \u00e7ox gec olur.<br \/>\nYax\u0131n g\u00fcnl\u0259rin s\u00f6hb\u0259tidir. \u0130\u015fd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b ev\u0259 gedirdim. Hava ya\u011f\u0131\u015fl\u0131 oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u015f\u0259h\u0259raras\u0131 avtobusa \u0259yl\u0259\u015fdim. N\u00f6vb\u0259ti dayanacaqda 13-14 ya\u015flar\u0131nda bir yeniyetm\u0259 o\u011flan \u0259lind\u0259 pryanik v\u0259 alkoqollu i\u00e7ki g\u0259lib \u0259yl\u0259\u015fdi. Bunu g\u00f6r\u0259n bir-iki n\u0259f\u0259r dill\u0259ndi: <!--more--><br \/>\n\u2013Ay bala, o s\u0259nin i\u00e7kin deyil, niy\u0259 i\u00e7irs\u0259n?<br \/>\nO\u011flan is\u0259 he\u00e7 n\u0259 e\u015fitmirmi\u015f kimi \u201cm\u0259\u015f\u011fuliyy\u0259tin\u0259\u201d davam etdi. M\u0259n is\u0259 bir s\u00f6z dem\u0259dim v\u0259 yax\u0131n ke\u00e7mi\u015fimizi\u201330-40 il \u0259vv\u0259lki, o ya\u015fda olan yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259ri xat\u0131rlad\u0131m, onunla m\u00fcqayis\u0259 ed\u0259r\u0259k \u00e7ox t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259ndim&#8230;<br \/>\nBizim g\u0259ncl\u0259rimizd\u0259 alkoqola, narkotik\u0259 maraq haradan yaran\u0131r? Nec\u0259 olur ki, yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rimiz bu b\u0259laya d\u00fc\u00e7ar olurlar. T\u0259bli\u011fat h\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fli apar\u0131l\u0131r\u2013ail\u0259d\u0259, t\u0259hsild\u0259, i\u015fd\u0259, bir s\u00f6zl\u0259 h\u0259r yerd\u0259. B\u0259s niy\u0259, bu q\u0259d\u0259r dad d\u00f6yd\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fcz, haray \u00e7\u0259kdiyimiz, lakin yen\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259r add\u0131mda rastla\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bu b\u0259ladan, xilas ola bilmirik?!<br \/>\nDo\u011frudur, o vaxtlarda da \u00e7\u0259tin t\u0259rbiy\u0259 olunanlara t\u0259sad\u00fcf edilirdi. Lakin bel\u0259l\u0259ri c\u0259miyy\u0259tin q\u0131na\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fanda \u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259, h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 islah olunurdular. Ya da ail\u0259nin x\u0259b\u0259r tutmas\u0131ndan, etdiyi s\u0259hvin t\u0259krarlanmas\u0131ndan qorxurdular. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, bu g\u00fcn b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u0259ncl\u0259rimiz n\u00f6qsanl\u0131 deyil. Q\u00fcrurland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u0259ncl\u0259r \u00e7oxluq t\u0259\u015fkil edir. \u00d6z t\u0259hsili, pe\u015f\u0259si, m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259ti il\u0259 ail\u0259sin\u0259, v\u0259t\u0259nin\u0259 \u015f\u00f6hr\u0259t g\u0259tir\u0259n y\u00fczl\u0259rl\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259 v\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259rimiz var. Burada ad sadalama\u011fa ehtiyac yoxdur.<br \/>\nM\u0259ni narahat ed\u0259n v\u0259 h\u0259r an d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u0259n ba\u015fqa bir m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 var ki, o da g\u0259nc qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131zla ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Bu da yax\u0131n g\u00fcnl\u0259rin s\u00f6hb\u0259tidir. S\u00f6zs\u00fcz ki, h\u0259r bir qad\u0131n ya\u015f\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq bax\u0131ml\u0131, g\u00f6z\u0259l g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259rd\u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259llik salonlar\u0131na, pe\u015f\u0259karlara m\u00fcraci\u0259t edirl\u0259r. M\u0259n d\u0259 sa\u00e7\u0131m\u0131n qaydaya sal\u0131nmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn i\u015finin ustas\u0131 olan bir xan\u0131ma m\u00fcraci\u0259t etdim. Ad\u0259ti \u00fczr\u0259 bir n\u0259f\u0259rl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful idi, 2-3 n\u0259f\u0259r d\u0259 g\u00f6zl\u0259yirdi. M\u0259n d\u0259 buradak\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcm ya\u015fda olan bir qad\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. G\u00f6zl\u0259diyim m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259 el\u0259 bir s\u00f6hb\u0259t e\u015fitdim ki, mat\u0131m-qutum qurudu. G\u00f6z\u0259llik ustas\u0131 h\u0259rd\u0259n s\u00f6hb\u0259t\u0259 m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 ets\u0259 d\u0259, \u00f6z i\u015find\u0259 idi. Arada bildirirdi ki, indi nahaq g\u00f6zl\u0259yirsiniz, gedib ax\u015fam t\u0259r\u0259fi g\u0259ls\u0259niz, daha yax\u015f\u0131 olar. \u0130nadkarl\u0131q edib, g\u00f6zl\u0259dim.<br \/>\n\u018fyl\u0259\u015fmi\u015f g\u0259nc xan\u0131m dill\u0259ndi.<br \/>\n\u2013H\u0259l\u0259 m\u0259n sa\u00e7\u0131m\u0131 qaynaq etdirib, sonra da r\u0259ngl\u0259d\u0259c\u0259m, bu \u0259n az\u0131 7-8 saat \u00e7\u0259k\u0259c\u0259k.<br \/>\nBa\u015fqa bir qad\u0131n naraz\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildir\u0259r\u0259k dedi:<br \/>\n\u2013S\u0259n bu q\u0259d\u0259r saata ne\u00e7\u0259 manat \u00f6d\u0259y\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n ki, o m\u00fc\u015ft\u0259ril\u0259rini geri qaytars\u0131n?<br \/>\n\u2013Art\u0131q 150 manat \u00f6d\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m\u2013dedi.<br \/>\nHam\u0131 bir-birinin \u00fcz\u00fcn\u0259 baxd\u0131. He\u00e7 yerd\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259n g\u0259nc qad\u0131n bu q\u0259d\u0259r pulu hardan al\u0131r, ax\u0131?! Ba\u015fqa qad\u0131nlar\u0131n i\u015f yerind\u0259n ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir ayl\u0131q m\u0259vacibdir 150 manat.<br \/>\nNaraz\u0131l\u0131q ed\u0259n xan\u0131m dilini dinc qoymay\u0131b, bir d\u0259 soru\u015fdu:<br \/>\n\u2013Ay bala, s\u0259n harda i\u015fl\u0259yirs\u0259n, ayda n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r qazan\u0131rsan ki, 150 manat\u0131 bir sa\u00e7 ustas\u0131na verirs\u0259n?<br \/>\nG\u0259nc qad\u0131n \u0259hval\u0131n\u0131 pozmadan cavab verdi:<br \/>\n\u2013M\u0259nim ya\u015fay\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131 t\u0259min edib, ev alan, alt\u0131ma ma\u015f\u0131n al\u0131b qoyan ki\u015fi ayda m\u0259n\u0259 min manatdan \u00e7ox pul verir, 150 manat n\u0259dir ki?<br \/>\nBayaqdan t\u0259\u0259cc\u00fcb etdiyim m\u0259qam el\u0259 bir k\u0259lm\u0259 il\u0259 ayd\u0131n oldu. Orada g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259n bezib, oradan \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131m. \u0130ll\u0259rl\u0259 \u00f6z z\u0259hm\u0259tl\u0259ri hesab\u0131na dolanan, ehtiyaclar\u0131n\u0131 bel\u0259 \u00f6z do\u011fmalar\u0131ndan gizl\u0259d\u0259n t\u0259miz adla oturub-duran az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 xan\u0131mlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 xat\u0131rlad\u0131m&#8230; Ortaya bir sual \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r: \u201cB\u0259s namus-qeyr\u0259t harda qald\u0131? He\u00e7 olmasa h\u0259rd\u0259n \u201cD\u0259li K\u00fcr\u201d filmini xat\u0131rlay\u0131n\u201d.<br \/>\nH\u0259mya\u015f\u0131d\u0131m bir m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259 qad\u0131n var. 22 ya\u015f\u0131ndan h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 avtomobil q\u0259zas\u0131nda r\u0259hm\u0259t\u0259 gedib. 2 \u00f6vlad\u0131 var. B\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rimizin s\u00f6yl\u0259diyi kimi, \u201cbir \u00fcz\u00fc g\u0259lin, bir \u00fcz\u00fc q\u0131z\u201d t\u0259miz adla u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fctd\u00fc, t\u0259hsil, ail\u0259 sahibi etdi. Art\u0131q n\u0259v\u0259l\u0259ri var. Amma dey\u0259n olmad\u0131 ki, \u201cfilank\u0259sin\u201d hesab\u0131na ya\u015fad\u0131. Ad\u0131n\u0131n qaba\u011f\u0131na ad qo\u015fulmad\u0131. Nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r, aza da, \u00e7oxa da qane olaraq, halal \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015fad\u0131. Bu g\u00fcn is\u0259 x\u0259tirli, h\u00f6rm\u0259tli tutulan xan\u0131mlar\u0131m\u0131zdan biridir.<br \/>\nAx\u0131, bizim milli d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimizin \u0259n alisi namus-qeyr\u0259timizdir. Ta q\u0259dimd\u0259n bizim qeyr\u0259tli ki\u015fil\u0259rimiz d\u0259 olub, namusunu h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u00fcst\u00fcn tutan qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z da olub v\u0259 indi d\u0259 var. Bu g\u00fcn d\u0259 \u0259traf\u0131m\u0131z bel\u0259 insanlardan xali deyil.<br \/>\nLakin indiki b\u0259zi qad\u0131nlar unudurlar ki, kimins\u0259 pulu il\u0259 f\u0259xr eliy\u0259n y\u00fcng\u00fcl xasiyy\u0259tli qad\u0131nlar\u0131n qurr\u0259l\u0259ndikl\u0259ri \u0259xlaqs\u0131z ki\u015fil\u0259r bir ail\u0259nin b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fc, bir qad\u0131n\u0131n \u0259ri, evd\u0259ki u\u015faqlar\u0131n do\u011fma atas\u0131d\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r o ki\u015fil\u0259r b\u00fct\u00fcn bu halall\u0131qlar\u0131 unudurlarsa, bir g\u00fcn d\u0259 s\u0259nin unudulma\u011f\u0131n olacaq. O zaman \u0259lin he\u00e7 n\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7atmayacaq.<br \/>\n\u018fg\u0259r h\u0259r k\u0259s \u00f6z namusunu, qeyr\u0259tini qorusa, o zaman milli d\u0259y\u0259rimiz kimi milli m\u0259n\u0259viyyat\u0131m\u0131z da qorunmu\u015f olacaqd\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em><strong>Elfuz\u0259 CAMALQIZI<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>HE\u00c7 OLMASA H\u018fRD\u018fN \u201cD\u018fL\u0130 K\u00dcR\u201d\u00fc XATIRLAYIN A\u011fl\u0131m k\u0259s\u0259nd\u0259n, ail\u0259d\u0259n, qohum-qon\u015fudan, t\u0259hsil ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259n, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u015f yerind\u0259n anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m, duydu\u011fum d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimizi he\u00e7 bir \u00f6lk\u0259nin, mill\u0259tin d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rin\u0259 tay tutmam\u0131\u015fam. H\u0259m ad\u0259tl\u0259rimiz, m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259timiz, m\u0259tb\u0259ximiz, t\u0259rbiy\u0259miz, h\u0259tta qanunlar\u0131m\u0131z bel\u0259 \u00f6z \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fc-bi\u00e7imind\u0259, aliliyind\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 f\u0259rql\u0259nib v\u0259 f\u0259rql\u0259nir. Lakin m\u00fcasir d\u00f6vr\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 b\u0259z\u0259n hardasa yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131q, sarpmalar \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir. Bunu m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259l\u0259rim\u0259 \u0259saslanaraq q\u0259l\u0259m\u0259 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[30],"tags":[32],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11317"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11317"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11317\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11317"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11317"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11317"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}