{"id":11194,"date":"2018-12-20T11:30:26","date_gmt":"2018-12-20T08:30:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yeniterter.az\/?p=11194"},"modified":"2018-12-20T11:30:26","modified_gmt":"2018-12-20T08:30:26","slug":"omurd%c9%99n-cizgil%c9%99r","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/?p=11194","title":{"rendered":"\u00d6M\u00dcRD\u018fN C\u0130ZG\u0130L\u018fR"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"\u201cAliml\u0259ri e\u015fidin, \u00e7\u00fcnki onlar d\u00fcnyan\u0131n \u00e7\u0131ra\u011f\u0131, axir\u0259tin nurudurlar. Aliml\u0259r\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t ed\u0259n \u015f\u0259xs el\u0259 bil m\u0259n\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t edir\u201d
\nM\u0259h\u0259mm\u0259d Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259r
\n50 il \u0259vv\u0259l bir m\u00fcdrik a\u011f-saqqaldan e\u015fitmi\u015f\u0259m: \u201cB\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00f6vrl\u0259rd\u0259 haqs\u0131zl\u0131qlar olub v\u0259 olacaq, ancaq h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131lar pisl\u0259rd\u0259n \u00e7ox olmu\u015fdur. Bu c\u00fcr olmasayd\u0131 d\u00fcnya \u00e7oxdan alt-\u00fcst olard\u0131\u201d. M\u0259n buna inanm\u0131\u015fam!
\nM\u0259lum h\u0259qiq\u0259tdir ki, \u00f6m\u00fcr zirv\u0259sini a\u015fan h\u0259r bir kamil insan ke\u00e7diyi yola n\u0259z\u0259r sal\u0131r, h\u0259yat\u0131nda qism\u0259ti olan ac\u0131-\u015firini, sevinc-k\u0259d\u0259ri, etdikl\u0259ri yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131q-pislikl\u0259ri v\u0259 n\u0259hay\u0259t, n\u0259 qoyub getdiyini yad edir, \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcb-bi\u00e7ir, \u00f6z \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u0259 qiym\u0259t veirir.
\n\u00d6z h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131 yada salanda y\u00fczl\u0259rl\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l, a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131, \u0259dal\u0259tli, t\u0259l\u0259bkar, qay\u011f\u0131ke\u015f, t\u0259miz, z\u0259hm\u0259tke\u015f, t\u0259m\u0259nnas\u0131z maddi-m\u0259n\u0259vi k\u00f6m\u0259klikl\u0259r g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259n \u0259sl insanlar\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f\u0259m.
\nH\u0259l\u0259 u\u015faqk\u0259n e\u015fitmi\u015f\u0259m : \u201cYax\u015f\u0131l\u0131q unudulmamal\u0131d\u0131r, pislik is\u0259 yaddan \u00e7\u0131xsa yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r\u201d. G\u0259lin raz\u0131la\u015faq ki, bizim ham\u0131m\u0131za yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131qlar, k\u00f6m\u0259klik g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259nl\u0259r olmu\u015fdur. H\u0259m\u00e7inin, he\u00e7 olmasa \u00f6z-\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda s\u0259ssiz etiraf ed\u0259k ki, h\u0259min yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131qlar\u0131n \u00e7oxunu unutmu\u015fuq, \u0259v\u0259zini qaytarmam\u0131\u015f\u0131q. Ulu, m\u00fcdrik tan\u0131d\u0131qlar\u0131mdan biri demi\u015fdir: \u201cY\u00fcz k\u0259r\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131q etdiyin adamlardan 99-u nan\u0259cib \u00e7\u0131x\u0131bsa, yaln\u0131z birc\u0259si h\u0259min yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 unutmay\u0131bsa, \u0259v\u0259zi \u00e7\u0131xacaq.\u201d Onu da qeyd etm\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m ki, m\u0259nim qism\u0259tim\u0259 h\u0259yatda yax\u015f\u0131lar daha \u00e7ox d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcb.
\nTale h\u0259yat yolumu dem\u0259k olar ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn ke\u00e7mi\u015f sovetl\u0259r \u00f6lk\u0259sind\u0259n ke\u00e7irmi\u015f, elm-t\u0259hsil ocaqlar\u0131 il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259dar etmi\u015f, onlarca tarixi \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rl\u0259 \u00fcnsiyy\u0259tim\u0259 imkan vermi\u015fdir.
\n\u0130nsan\u0131n m\u0259tin olmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn z\u0259hm\u0259t\u0259 qatlanmaq, d\u00f6z\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fck qabiliyy\u0259ti \u0259sas \u201csilah\u201dd\u0131r, d\u0259fedici vasit\u0259dir! \u018fb\u0259s yer\u0259 dem\u0259yibl\u0259r: \u201cZ\u0259hm\u0259tsiz ke\u00e7\u0259n \u00f6m\u00fcr, \u00f6m\u00fcr deyildir.\u201d
\nT\u0259rbiy\u0259li adam \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda z\u0259hm\u0259tke\u015f olur, \u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 qatlana bilir v\u0259 ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t edir, \u00f6zg\u0259nin z\u0259hm\u0259tin\u0259 qiym\u0259t ver\u0259 bilir.
\nEtiraf edir\u0259m ki, insan\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131, \u00f6m\u00fcr yolu h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 \u0259min-amanl\u0131, hamar olmur.
\nYa\u015famaq \u0259zmi ham\u0131ya aid hiss-arzudur. Lakin m\u0259n bu ya\u015fda da adamlars\u0131z, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 dostlars\u0131z \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc \u00e7ox nisgilli, t\u0259nha, g\u0259r\u0259ksiz sayard\u0131m. T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edirsiniz, m\u0259n bu ya\u015f\u0131mda da dost, v\u0259fal\u0131 soyda\u015flar\u0131mla daha \u015f\u0259n, m\u0259nal\u0131 g\u00fcnl\u0259r, anlar ya\u015fay\u0131ram.
\n\u00d6m\u00fcr yoluna n\u0259z\u0259r salanda v\u0259 ata-ana t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n deyil\u0259n \u00f6y\u00fcd-n\u0259sih\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259, onlar\u0131n bir-birin\u0259, qohum-qon\u015fulara, h\u0259yat hadis\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 fikir ver\u0259nd\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rsan ki, onlar kimi davranasan, ya\u015fayasan. Ata-anadan m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn a\u011fl\u0131ma, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259m\u0259 h\u0259kk edil\u0259nl\u0259r d\u00f6z\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fck, \u00f6z qism\u0259tin\u0259 \u015f\u00fck\u00fcrl\u0259r etm\u0259k, \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259ri d\u0259f etm\u0259y\u0259 qadir olmaq g\u00f6s-t\u0259ri\u015fl\u0259ridir.
\nBir \u00e7ox yozumlara g\u00f6r\u0259 h\u0259r bir d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259l\u0259n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onun g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n eni\u015fi-yoxu\u015fu, ac\u0131s\u0131-\u015firini, bir s\u00f6zl\u0259, b\u00fct\u00fcn qism\u0259ti tale\u2013Yaradan t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n qabaqcadan t\u0259yin olunur. \u018fg\u0259r bel\u0259dirs\u0259, nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r, m\u0259nimki \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu g\u0259tirmi\u015f say\u0131la bil\u0259r. Art\u0131q m\u0259lumdur ki, ata-anan\u0131n genetik x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tind\u0259n formala\u015f\u0131r onlar\u0131n u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat yolu, c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 rolu, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131, xeyir-ziyan\u0131. Dem\u0259li, h\u0259l\u0259 qabaqcadan bel\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n olunmu\u015fdur ki, m\u0259nim F\u0259rrux atam Maya anamla h\u0259yat quracaq, ail\u0259d\u0259 onuncu u\u015faq n\u00f6vb\u0259si m\u0259n\u0259 qism\u0259t olacaq. M\u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck q\u00fcrur v\u0259 m\u0259mnunluqla qeyd edir\u0259m ki, tale m\u0259n\u0259 onlar kimi valideyn qism\u0259t etmi\u015fdir. B\u00fct\u00fcn normal yaranm\u0131\u015flar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, onlar\u0131n ata-anas\u0131 \u0259zizdir.
\nD\u00fcnyada ideal, na\u011f\u0131llarda, arzu-dil\u0259kl\u0259rd\u0259 oldu\u011funa tam uy\u011fun f\u0259rdinsan \u00e7ox g\u00fcman ki, yoxdur. Haqq-\u0259dal\u0259ti \u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fc-qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259 \u0259msal\u0131 saym\u0131\u015fam. Buna n\u0259 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 nail olmu\u015fam, bu bar\u0259d\u0259 he\u00e7 n\u0259 dey\u0259 bilm\u0259r\u0259m…
\nAta-ana g\u00f6st\u0259ri\u015fl\u0259ri m\u0259nim h\u0259yat\u0131mda s\u00f6nm\u0259z \u00e7\u0131raqd\u0131r. B\u00fct\u00fcn h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t t\u0259\u015f\u0259bb\u00fcsl\u0259rimi onlar\u0131n \u201c\u00f6l\u00e7\u00fc\u201d q\u0259libind\u0259n ke\u00e7ir\u0259nd\u0259n sonra ba\u015flam\u0131\u015fam. Uzun ill\u0259rin t\u0259hsili, elmd\u0259, h\u0259yatda ke\u00e7irdiyim m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 m\u0259nim do\u011fma ata evind\u0259 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m t\u0259rbiy\u0259 cilalanm\u0131\u015f v\u0259 m\u0259n onlar\u0131 da-ha d\u0259rind\u0259n d\u0259rk etmi\u015f\u0259m. \u00c7\u00fcnki, h\u0259l\u0259 u\u015faql\u0131q\u2013m\u0259kt\u0259b ill\u0259rind\u0259 ata-anamdan \u0259d\u0259b-\u0259rkan\u0131l\u0131 olmaq, b\u00f6y\u00fck-ki\u00e7iklik qaydalar\u0131, z\u0259hm\u0259t-\u0259m\u0259yi t\u0259r\u0259qqinin t\u0259m\u0259li saymaq, yolda\u015fl\u0131q, dostluq etm\u0259k, se\u00e7im, s\u0131naq, inam \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259dbirl\u0259ri\u2013qaydalar\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 saxlamaq, insaf, \u0259dal\u0259t, halall\u0131q, t\u0259m\u0259nnas\u0131z yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131qlar, \u0259l, n\u0259fs t\u0259mizliyi, halal duz-\u00e7\u00f6r\u0259k anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131 v\u0259 s. bar\u0259d\u0259 yet\u0259rinc\u0259 \u201cd\u0259rs\u201d alm\u0131\u015fam. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 m\u0259n \u0259min\u0259m ki, insan\u0131n \u0259sas t\u0259rbiy\u0259si ail\u0259d\u0259 formala\u015f\u0131r, t\u0259hsil is\u0259 onlar\u0131 \u0259sasland\u0131r\u0131r, yaln\u0131z bilik, savad verir.
\nM\u0259n q\u00fcrur hissi il\u0259 qeyd edir\u0259m ki, valideynl\u0259rim m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259sl m\u0259nada h\u0259yat m\u0259kt\u0259bim olmu\u015flar.<\/p>\n

Professor Rasim AXUNDOV<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cAliml\u0259ri e\u015fidin, \u00e7\u00fcnki onlar d\u00fcnyan\u0131n \u00e7\u0131ra\u011f\u0131, axir\u0259tin nurudurlar. Aliml\u0259r\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t ed\u0259n \u015f\u0259xs el\u0259 bil m\u0259n\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t edir\u201d M\u0259h\u0259mm\u0259d Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259r 50 il \u0259vv\u0259l bir m\u00fcdrik a\u011f-saqqaldan e\u015fitmi\u015f\u0259m: \u201cB\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00f6vrl\u0259rd\u0259 haqs\u0131zl\u0131qlar olub v\u0259 olacaq, ancaq h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131lar pisl\u0259rd\u0259n \u00e7ox olmu\u015fdur. Bu c\u00fcr olmasayd\u0131 d\u00fcnya \u00e7oxdan alt-\u00fcst olard\u0131\u201d. M\u0259n buna inanm\u0131\u015fam! M\u0259lum h\u0259qiq\u0259tdir ki, \u00f6m\u00fcr zirv\u0259sini a\u015fan h\u0259r […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[10],"tags":[20],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11194"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11194"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11194\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11194"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11194"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yeniterter.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11194"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}